Wait a minute - this sounds a bit too controlling to me. Are you just one of his bells!
My DH has a weekly commitment which annoys me quite a bit as he refuses to be flexible about it.
I am trying to fill the time with something organised for me but it isn't the same is it as just saying look here, it's a beautiful evening , can't you call off your bell ringing for once and come for a walk with me.
I hope you find a solution soon.
Do you still wear you original wedding and engagement ring
Cardigan finished using Elvis yarn