I am so sorry this has happened to you. It’s a dreadful thing to be accused so unjustly. A similar thing happened to a friend in the 1990s, except it was HIV..
Medical fact: HPV is contracted by direct sexual contact. If you have been faithful, then he hasn’t. It would probably be very unwise to accuse him. From what you say, you have caught it from him. His verbal abuse proves only the degree of guilt he has, and the control he currently has over you. Please get away from him, as it is very likely to escalate. Your safety is far more important than your ‘understanding’ him. You are not his therapist. Understand that you don’t deserve his nonsense. Your husband needs help, but not from you, as he sees you as the problem.
You will need good friends to help you through this. Your adult children should also know asap from you what is happening: don’t let him get his word in first.
Please keep us posted {hug}
Fruit flies - help needed please.
Army horses loose on London streets
Have any of you got all electric cars? Pros and cons please.