My daughter is 34 and has been with her partner, living together, for 8 years. They both work hard and have good jobs. I’ve been worried for a while as there’s no sign of an engagement, marriage or children. I know that’s not the be all and end all these days but all her friends are settled, married and have children. I think she’d like this too but I can see that her relationship is one where his needs come first and she goes along with it. They seem happy enough together although he’s never really mixed in with our family but they see plenty of his. We’ve always made him welcome and been friendly but we don’t see a lot of him although we do of her. Earlier this year, his father died and his mother is struggling to cope, understandably. It turns out that he phones her every evening and is on the phone for over an hour every night. This is after a full day at work. She will invite herself to stay and my daughter has to accept it. Or, rather, she goes along with it. He’s very close to his mother. I’m sorry for her but think she’s very dependant.
Do other grans think this relationship has a future as I’m not sure myself. I’ve not said anything to my daughter as I don’t want to upset her. We don’t dislike him, but we are anxious for her.
Army horses loose on London streets
Well Labour’s “patriotism” didn’t last very long, did it? 🇬🇧
The majority of Israeli Jews do not want to occupy Gaza.