Should I say the 3 little words first

I've been in a 'situationship' for a year. Neither has labelled it so far. I have feelings. I'm scared to voice them for the same reasons. Sorry I can't be more helpful but I certainly feel your dilemma ?

Bit early, maybe wait and see what he has planned for Valentines Day.

But if you do send a card that says I love You , he might say it back to you!
If he did a runner wouldn't it be better to know?
I say if you feel it then send the card.

No don`t.
A friend of mine made that mistake,she told her now x she loved him and his reply to that was don`t complicate things.
She was so hurt and to this day talks about it and that was over 20 years ago.

You were apart for 2 years but you really love/loved him? He might find that strange.

Ask yourself: If it wasn't Valentines Day, would you be considering saying it?
Then you should have your answer.....

Life is too short, just say it

Why cant you say it if you feel you really want to do you think he feels the same.

Why do you think you are scared of saying it? That would be my question! If you love him. Tell him, agree with Jura2

Kittye - but then they can both 'play that game' forever ... neither daring saying it first.

I believe if it is right it is, and if not, the sooner you know the better. I'd say it- either it is reciprocated, and that is wonderful.
Or it is not ... and time to let go.

Thank you all for your sound advice you all seem to be of one mind,
I am going to wait

A friend told her man friend she thought she was falling in love with him. That was the end of the relationship she’d scared him off. I’d wait til he said it first.

And it means absolutely nothing if said after sex!

Such a little word with so many repercussions if you get it wrong.
I always wait to see if it's really real before I commit to saying it, and that takes a long time.

Yes, too soon after you got back together. Wait a while.

Early days! Wait until it comes naturally, if it does.

Don't!

I once told a guy I loved him (first) and never saw him again (I was 16 though) ?

Only say those words if you truly mean them. If you have to ask us then the answer is that you are not ready to say those words.

Once said, can’t be unsaid. Why not just carry on treating him in a loving way? Actions and all that.....