My 34 yr old married Daughter has said she will come to Butlins for an adult music weekend. I said I would pay.
She HAD to ask her husband & he said yes then 2 hrs after I had paid for it he changed his mind & said she can’t go & she’s doing what he said.
Even though she invited her longest friend who mum is my longest friend so they aren’t happy with her either.
Iv been asking her everyday for 2 weeks if she will please come
Then I said it’s not fair that I still have to pay as she’s not going & I would like her husband to pay me back as it due to him that she will not come I also said if she can get her husband to change his mind or if we find another person to take her place I will give her the money back
She said she didn’t have the money so I said she could pay me back in instalments. After that text she’s blocked me.
I’m so hurt because this will be my last big birthday I have so many illnesses but I just wanted to spend the weekend with my Daughter my best friend & her Daughter who we have been friends with for 30 yrs my friend & her Daughter have asked her to
What can I do
He just wants us to not get on
We have had years of off & on bad relationships between each other. But her husband said she shouldn’t even want to see me because Iv upset her in the past ( as she has me very much) I
Believe in keep trying until you can try no more. And the past 6 months have been great between us
My Daughter has no relationship with her Dad but she has tried to over & over. When she was a child he said some very very sexual inappropriate things to her & he touched her breast she was 11 yrs old. His whole family disbelieved her except for her Aunt & Uncle. Then 7 yrs they got back in touch
And my Daughter has travelled 600 miles round trips in several occasions to see him to hopefully get an apology from him which he has never given
They have allowed him in their house & he’s traveled to where they live for a weekend twice
Her husband has allowed her to try & have a relationship with him but not me & this breaks my heart terribly. Why would her husband drive so far to see him after what he did, why how could he shake his hand how can they let their 2 little girls be around him.
Her Dad doesn’t even care about any of them. He gives a little birthday & Christmas money Iv done & do so much for my Granddaughters I love them more then life I love my Daughter so much too. I just can’t get my head around it & her husband hates me & my Daughter promises me that he isn’t controlling he’s a good husband & she must put him first.
Is there anything I can do.
Please help xx
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