Oh I do feel for you Debutante. You do have a choice in all this and I think you need to be realistic and talk to your Husband. Tell him how you feel and I know it will be hard as like many men he probably wont want to hear it. Once done make your plans. I know we all would want to leave everything for our children, but if they have left the family home. got their own lives and jobs, then I am sure they would be happier for you if you were happy. I have had this conversation with my children about leaving them their inheritance and they have said they have their jobs, homes etc and do not need my money. I expect yours would say the same. We can all worry about the future but you need to worry about yours. If your house was sold you could afford to find somewhere to rent, it needn't be a large place. The local authority wont be able to help you with their housing but may be able to suggest an alternative. You can look into what benefits you can claim. Life isnt over for you and you have to make it was it is. I do wish you all the luck in the world,
Have any of you got all electric cars? Pros and cons please.