Abuse victims need help from others to be able to get out of the situation.
"Mind your own business" is such a selfish attitude. It protects the abuser.
Do you wish people will give their backs to you when you need support?
I witnessed a cousin of mine treat his partner in such a verbally abusive manner.
His partner was such a sweet person but without fighting spirit and beat up by his boyfriend (my cousin). She also happened to be a trained psychologist.
Once at dinner with 10 more people, he got supermad and scolded her like a child because she ordered a pizza he didn't like.
Granted, he had his own pizza and her pizza was not going to be shared with him
She began defending herself for her choice and he continued scolding her why she didn't care about him and why she wanted to get him so angry
It was such an ackward and uncomfortable moment
I spoke up and said: "Were you planning on sharing the pizza?" The answer was no
"No big deal then! You ordered what you wanted and she did the same, enjoy your meal!"
She perked up so fast, smiled and told him "you see, it was not big deal."
The look my cousin gave 0me was not a happy one. Who cares, what a controlling bully
My parents were supermad at me because "I got in the middle of a couple and it wasnt my business and I should apologize to my cousin"
The next morning, her girlfriend was back to her submissive role while my cousin barked instructions at her - pack the suitcase, how come it's not done yet?, is the bed made? Have you had breakfast?
How sad.