I was the youngest of the cousins on both sides of the family (I was my parents 'afterthought'!) so I knew a few of them in the UK, then several years ago when my daughter moved to Australia I got to know the cousins there, we keep in touch intermittently, and follow each others families on FB. I have some cousins in Canada and have a similar FB relationship with one of them, she visits the UK every few years and we always try to see her. I didn't know very much at all about my two cousins in the US but they were so lovely when I managed to get in touch that we went to visit them a few years ago and all got on so well, we had a great time. Sadly the oldest and his lovely wife are now in sheltered housing and finding life difficult, so I just write to them from time to time, but the other one is only a year or two older than me and we enjoy a lively e mail exchange regularly, sharing photos, recipes and family exploits, and would love to meet up again some time, COVID permitting! I also have a distant cousin in Italy who we see when he is in the UK, and a lovely sort of cousin who is very elderly but sharp as a tack and very entertaining company, we see her when we can. So really they are much like friends gathered over the years - some you want to spend more time with, some less! But a shared family history means that you can sometimes uncover fascinating stories from the past. As long as you don't expect your cousins to necessarily be your forever best buddies, there is nothing to lose in keeping up a relationship with them.