Turning the telly off is always a good start, and funnily enough it was only last night I had the conversation with DH re 'what happens when one of us dies'.
Now DH is not the chattiest of people, though he tends to know I mean business when I turn the TV off.
The conversation I needed to have with him was around certain financial things I hoped he would agree to be put in place in order to safeguard both of us, and make things a lot simpler in the event of either of us dying....jolly little subject, I know.
I know that he hates to be rushed into things, so I just slowly laid it all out and asked him to think about it, and said that I would ask him again in a week's time to see what he has decided.
I also know that he can't be given too many things to think about at once, so the much needed conversation about LPA is on the back burner for now. With that one, I'll be appealing to his pocket i.e. how much more expensive with ongoing fees it is, in addition to all the other complexities of having to go to the Court of Protection in the event of future mental incapacity, if a LPA isnt already in place.
My closest friend and I have also agreed to organise one another's funeral if anything happens to either one of us. My friend's DH can't tie his own shoe laces, never mind anything else, bless him, and if things re my funeral are left to my DH, no bugger would even know I had died.
What are they like eh.