I’m just about to celebrate my 30th anniversary in one week. I love my husband but not sure I’m ‘in love’ with him he really is a lovely man and I still think he’s gorgeous BUT we haven’t been intimate in a year, I believe there are medical issues but he refuses to go to the doctors, I also don’t think he fancies me which is utterly devastating for me. So I’ve switched off to him. My 3 children have left home in last 2 years to start their lives, all confident happy children so couldn’t be happier for them. But I’m bereft without them. Our lives are generally happy so ultimately I won’t rock the boat. But I am depressed, unfortunately my husband doesn’t believe in ‘mental health’ issues as do my children and doctor so I will just have to cope.
It is hard to give constructive advice as I totally understand how you feel. I can’t afford to split up from my husband and don’t have a support system either. This sounds very dramatic as I ultimately have a good life just not sure if I’m happy? I wish you good luck but if you’re generally happy don’t rush into splitting up, things could be a lot worse, take care x
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