While we all think we would be loving and caring to our partner should their compromised health require it, it is not so easy for many of us. My husband does a lot for me and has changed our lives to suit my needs but I am a horrible nurse when he is ill! I am more of a matron!
Being the carer is a very difficult task and maybe your husband is angry, stifling his own feelings of loss and disappointment, not knowing how to be of any use to you in your situation
These are negotiable times as we get older and we have to try to find a way through that suits everyone. Of course you want him to be sensitive to your illness and difficulties but he also needs some understanding of what it is like to have his life changed too
Let it go, be brave and hold no grudges. Life's too short and there are those who would be glad of the extra days when they do feel well enough to continue to live a fairly normal life
I hope you can forgive his fears and ignorance and show some sympathy as you are hoping he will do for you.
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