I was promised by a friend that when her husband retired it would not affect us, we will still have our days out, walks, etc every week cos she would be glad to get away from him for a while. It hasn't happened, she never really bothers anymore, she phones me, but that's it. I know with Covid, etc this past year it would of been hard to catch up but this was even before the pandemic. She's constantly sending pics of them out, where they are, what they are eating, etc.
I haven't saw another one since December. I've messaged her and she promises to phone for a chat or call to see me, cos when I call at hers she's never in, but she never bothers. I know people are busy, but these two 'friends' are retired like myself. I live alone and it would be lovely to see them, even for a walk, friendship works both ways.