You’ve received good advice already. I would just repeat what someone up thread said. He will have issues whatever you do. It’s his mindset.
I think you have to tell him what you’ve told us. You’re no longer going to play these silly games. You love him very much, and always will, but he’s spoiling valuable time with your other sons and families.
The one thing you can do...is to help him get help, because something doesn’t sound right with his mental health, but it shouldn’t be to the detriment of the rest of you.
I do feel for you, and hope you can find a solution.
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