I have lived on my own since 1971 so had to do everything for myself. As I’ve got older,my main problem is a physical one where strength is required. I hate having to ask any of my family to help me unless absolutely necessary.
Dh does a few domestic jobs as we are both retired he has no excuse now to not do some.
But I know he may do something half hearted so I won’t ask again, but I am wise to this I don’t say anything and when he’s out for a walk or in the garden I have a quick gloss over.
He does a great job in the bathroom, so I don’t mind really I hate cleaning out the shower so pleased to pass that to him.