I think you sound like a very nice and caring person but do not take too much notice of her, please. You have a loving family around you which is a treasure in itself. I also have a loving family but being not so forbearing would tend to exaggerate any ‘shortcomings’, real or not, perceived by another. ‘I really am a TERRIBLE cook-I can’t be bothered as I’m not terribly interested in what I eat’ (that much is true, I’m not interested but I’m told I’m a decent cook). ‘Hobbies? I’d rather watch TV- LOVE reality shows’ (I don’t). Grandchildren? ‘They’re only young once, let them have fun and do what they like. And fast food is finger food, right? so no need for all those boring table manners!’ Problem is, your DH might think you’ve gone a bit bonkers unless he wants to join in with the fun! Remember, no one can make you feel inferior without your permission!
Dr. Hilary Cass - report re trans.