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Fed up with daughter

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Daftbag1 Wed 02-Mar-22 14:23:15

My daughter left her abusive and controlling husband. Within a fortnight she was an ,'item', with a new man, who we are watching become controlling too.

Daughter has two children who are very unhappy and witnessing this new relationship, and there's no real concern for them, their mum has put her blinkers on, and can't see what's happening.

At present we can keep an eye on things but now she's planning to move to boyfriends' area (60 miles from us). I've not said anything to her but she knows how I feel.

I can't believe that she's going to move her children to a completely new area on the basis of a boyfriend and his job as a forklift (which he can do anywhere). This will impact on the children seeing their father, as well as us. That's not even considering that we moved a fair distance to be close to her at her bequest.

I'm angry, hurting but more importantly VERY worried

Madgran77 Thu 17-Mar-22 18:52:25

Cathy G I think you need to start you own thread. Often posters only refer back to the original post and wont see yours.

Go to Forums, choose a forum and then at the top will be start new thread button

CathyG Sat 19-Mar-22 08:30:22

Thanks everyone. All advice welcome greatly appreciated. It’s helped me get out of my own head.
Thanks again and best wishes
Cathyg