+1 for @Granny23 and seadragon.
We are all different, with different levels of drive and preferences, at a particular time of life..
A loving couple communicate what they want, need or are prepared to accept, in terms what, when and where.
What would be too much for one might not be enough for another.
So each couple should find a compromise over their love making, to give and receive as much pleasure as possible.
Sometimes doing a favourite thing, (music, meal, whatever) might open the door for something more romantic.
It would be sad to lose PIV, but if there are medical reasons, other techniques can be found for mutual satisfaction.
How do you acknowledge Easter.
Kate Garroway-Care at home costs