Have a 46 year old nephew who visits at Christmas. We have always welcomed him even though housing is tight. At retirement we moved into a 3 bead room townhome and with our children, this makes 12 people. Since our retirement, our children take turns paying for dinner at least once per 7 day visit. Our nephew has never offered.
Recently, we paid for a bucket list vacation for our children. One child mentioned our trip to nephew who managed to be in the same area at the same time and included himself for each meal without any reciprocation. This increased our expenses quite a bit more than what we planned on.
How do we handle this? He and his wife have good jobs and would seem to have the means to contribute.
welbeck