Who adds more to your life at this stage?
Who is likely to bring you joy and contentedness in the future?
May I suggest that you change your mind about actually getting married. My OH and I are very much committed to each other but won't be getting married because the law states that our assets then would be joint.
I want what I have to go to my offspring as does he. By choosing not to marry we have removed a possible barrier to them accepting a new partner for their parent. You never know what resentments they might be harbouring.
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic