Thank you for all your replies it certainly does give me the extra strength to not go back on my word.
As one person said she has probably done this before and they are correct.
She would move out when she had met a new guy and when it broke down she would come running back home this happened more then once.
She has always had a nasty selfish side to her.
Growing up my mother cared more for my brother then she did for me I believe she felt this way because she hated my birthfather who left my mother when I was 9 months old and she then married my stepdad who officially adopted me I was 7 years old after they had a son.
My father could not be found at the time of adoption ( but that is another story) my grandmother and auntie on my mother’s side said to me they could always see she ( my mother) treated me differently to my half brother so I vowed never ever to be like that with my own children and my daughter hasn’t known this as i have always mentioned it.
So i feel she had used my upbringing and hurt i suffered and the vow i made and used it against me.
I have not spoken to my mother nearly two years now but guess who is the only one who does yes my daughter.
I know she has said thinks about me behind my back.
My mother cut my other 3 children out of her life because they didn’t see her often but they have busy lives and my mother never ever made any effort with them , she only meet her great granddaughter 3/4 times in 6 years and she lives 10 mins away from her.
So yea I am going to be strong I am prepared for times when I will miss her and think i should make a effort but no definitely not she has gone to far this time.
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