I’ve been married for many decades to someone a little older than me. He has had several problems over the last 15 or so years, it seems as soon as one improves he has another problem which prevents walking a distance or attempting to dance at weddings etc. I have nursed him devotedly through several ops and the disastrous aftermath of them caused by NHS incompetence so I’m not entirely heartless! However I am feeling very frustrated by the non stop issues and limitations caused by this. He has never been an active person and has happily let me do the majority of household and diy tasks. He has put on weight due to his lack of activity.Now of course waits for treatment are endless so we are paying privately for diagnosis and physio. I love him dearly, but he has never been a demonstrative man and I do wonder how he would look after me if I ever needed it; so far I have rarely been in need in our very long marriage.
I just feel like a horrible person!
Is one's title part of one's name....?
Karcher window vacuum - any good?