My daughter has a personality disorder which sometimes makes her difficult to deal with and will sometimes say inappropriate things in front of young ears. She can't seem to help herself and it is distressing so I understand your angst. My husband found it very difficult to deal with and although he kept his mouth tightly shut, I know my daughter was not unaware of his disapproval mainly because she would hurt my feelings.
I have found it much easier to keep them apart so that I have a relationship with my daughter and her children which I can manage on the terms that work. I have done a lot of reading and realise that her anxiety about things that most of us don't even think about, make her explosive and actually, she hates herself afterwards. Not dismissing her fears but being understanding make it much easier even though inside I am sometimes screaming, "Really?" Sometimes walking away but still being friendly makes the difference too. Trying to resolve something when somebody is on high alert is almost bound to fail. Trying to get somebody to trust your good intentions when they distrust the world doesn't make an easy relationship but escalating it by arguing the toss is also doomed to fail.
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