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gloria87 Mon 19-Aug-24 03:23:01

Just would like to know you if you have a good and kind heart

grandMattie Mon 19-Aug-24 05:10:03

Surely it’s for others to say?
I try to be kind but….

grandMattie Mon 19-Aug-24 05:10:22

OP, have you?

Tuaim Mon 19-Aug-24 06:15:20

Depends on the situation for me but I do remember in an interview Chris Blackwell of Island records said that there were two types of people he had met: the generous hearted and the mean spirited. I chose to be, as far as possible, the former.

Marydoll Mon 19-Aug-24 07:06:03

gloria, I am curious about what prompted you to ask this question.

My colleagues used to say that I killed them with kindness. Does that fulfill the criteria for a good and kind heart?

However, there have been occasions when I wished I was not so soft hearted.

NotSpaghetti Mon 19-Aug-24 10:07:24

Lets Give It A Try! - what do you mean, please Gloria?

Shelflife Mon 19-Aug-24 10:14:33

Gloria , not sure what this is all about - explain please.

AGAA4 Mon 19-Aug-24 10:14:52

Do you need some kindness just now gloria?

Skydancer Mon 19-Aug-24 10:18:17

I am kind but I often think I'm taken advantage of.

OnwardandUpward Mon 19-Aug-24 10:22:26

Yes.

But if you are trying to scam me, no! grin

Cossy Mon 19-Aug-24 10:33:32

I try very hard to be kind! 😊
I don’t always succeed.

Is all ok OP?

Babs03 Mon 19-Aug-24 17:43:00

I aspire to be kind, not always sure I reach the mark but I keep on trying.

BlueBelle Mon 19-Aug-24 17:53:19

I try to be but I m sure I fail sometimes and I m ashamed to say I m not very kind to slugs
I m sure no one will come on here and say ‘Well now you mention it I think I m mostly unkind’ are they ? 🤣🤣🤣

Ziplok Mon 19-Aug-24 17:57:48

?

Kim19 Mon 19-Aug-24 17:58:13

I think (and sincerely hope) so. For example I would welcome friends and family indoors even if they hadn't let me know in advance. Also I would be happy to share the bill equally with friends and family irrespective of what each individual had consumed.

Indigo8 Mon 19-Aug-24 18:02:25

Definitely not, I have a bad and unkind heart. Ask anyone who knows me.grin

OnwardandUpward Mon 19-Aug-24 18:22:01

Haha Indigo8 I'm sure that's not true! grin

I have a kind heart, but this heart has had so much done to it that I'm a bit wary these days.

Do you have a kind heart Gloria87 ?

RosiesMaw2 Mon 19-Aug-24 18:36:57

Why?

MissAdventure Mon 19-Aug-24 18:38:22

I suspect Gloria imagines this is some sort of dating site.

M0nica Mon 19-Aug-24 18:45:45

I will give an opinion when I actually understand what is behind the OP's gnomic aphorism.

MissAdventure Mon 19-Aug-24 18:48:25

That's exactly what I was thinking, too, * M0nica*.
Gnomic in the extreme. rushes off to Google

OnwardandUpward Mon 19-Aug-24 19:08:55

This is a true mystery! Gloria might not be coming back.

Millie22 Mon 19-Aug-24 21:07:18

Hmm very intriguing 🤔

OnwardandUpward Mon 19-Aug-24 21:34:25

What I want to know is, what's being proposed here? confused

Oreo Mon 19-Aug-24 22:53:42

Oh I have ❤️ well, actually I don’t as all it really does, important tho it is, is to pump blood around the body.Any goodness and kindness originates in the mind.