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Lilygran Sun 16-Sep-12 12:56:21

Preliminary research suggests that quite a few active Gransnetters are also actively anti-religion. I shouldn't really call this 'research' but I should get some credit for reading every post on the Religion and Spirituality thread. You might get a different impression if you read all the posts on all the threads, given the notable Gransnet tendency to veer wildly off the subject. But, so far, of 67 topics listed, only 20 showed little or no evidence of adverse comment about nuns, Islam, priests (mainly Roman) American believers, childhood indoctrination, Christians, Christianity or related subjects. Sometimes, the original post invited that kind of comment and in that case, there were few dissenting voices. Even where the OP was positive about religion, there was sometimes marked tendency for negative comment to dominate. Feel free to comment, as you no doubt will.

Greatnan Sun 16-Sep-12 17:00:56

I didn't mention right wing.

Bags Sun 16-Sep-12 17:04:16

lily smile

janeainsworth Sun 16-Sep-12 17:14:20

Just for the record, I am reasonably well educated (though coming on here has been a humbling experience), agnostic, and slightly to the right of Ghengis Khan[joke].
I am very interested in others' opinions, but not their political allegiances nor their religious affiliations.
I'm going to my DD's for tea now and I hope when I get back you'll all have stopped pointlessly arguing with each othergrin

Movedalot Sun 16-Sep-12 17:19:17

Greatnan 2 for you:

1 Who is Alison and what is that all about?
2 I took it that if 'left' meant all those things the opposite was 'right'. Clearly a mistake but one that I think many would make.

Ariadne Sun 16-Sep-12 17:44:18

jane smile

What is all this about? You believe in a god. You don't believe in a god. So? This feels like a post that is absolutely asking for dissent. And I cannot be bothered any more; it will end, as ever, in tears.

I have not seen any evangelicizing here, and I'm happy because that annoys me, whoever is doing it.

It's not a question of me being scared to join in or whatever, it's more to do with weariness at this constant sniping. Neither camp is going to give in, but me, I'm going over to the quiet corner with when! And I'm taking my wine with me.

annodomini Sun 16-Sep-12 17:55:03

When I was a student I regarded myself as a Christian Socialist after the model of the Iona Community. Later I became a humanist and a Social Democrat (never a Liberal, though nominally a Lib Dem) so I refuse to pigeon-hole myself in any category, though I happen to think that the ideals of the Left (or left of centre) fit very well with the basic tenets of Christianity.

Greatnan Sun 16-Sep-12 18:04:09

Alison has been a prolific poster on religious threads and some people supported her. Perhaps they are all on holiday.
I was merely saying what 'left wing' means to me - there was no implication of what 'right wing' might mean. Some of us have been called 'loonie lefties' which is offensive, particularly as the people using that term did not say what their definition was so I thought I would give my own.
Jane, if you are not interested in people's religious or political views, may I ask exactly what opinions do interest you?

Bags Sun 16-Sep-12 18:16:53

Oh, for pity's sake! If people want to snipe, let them! The constant complaints about it are far more tiresome! Nobody has to read any particular thread. It's clear that some people don't like discussions about religion. Fine. Don't go near them then, and leave those who do the freedom to carry on without being constantly "told off" as if they were doing something wrong!

vampirequeen Sun 16-Sep-12 18:22:35

I consider myself to be a Christian. I think the message of being nice to one another is a pretty good way to try to live your life. However it doesn't stop me from seeing the faults in the Christian churches or the problem with unconditional or unthoughtout faith. If you mention your faith don't be surprised if someone asks you to explain the reasons you believe. It's just the same for the atheists. I would ask them why don't you believe and expect them to be able to give me a reasoned answer. It's not necessarily a sign that the questioner is being anti anything. It could just be a genuine interest in other people's beliefs.

Movedalot Sun 16-Sep-12 18:24:18

Vampire a very refreshing post, thank you

Greatnan Sun 16-Sep-12 18:47:11

VQ - I think we all agree that being nice to people is a good idea!

Elegran Sun 16-Sep-12 18:59:10

Sometimes the exchanges do sound to non-combatants like those between the big-endians and the little-endians.

We are all here together, adrift in the same leaky boat, and our energies should be focussed more on keeping it afloat and out of the whirlpools than on arguing whether a supernatural hand is on the tiller or whether we need to chart our route for ourselves.

But if you are just enjoying the intellectual exercise, then do continue. Just keep rowing and baling.

Greatnan Sun 16-Sep-12 19:16:05

I am just enjoying the intellectual exercise! What else would any of us be doing? We all know we are not going to alter anybody's beliefs, nor would we want to.

Bags Sun 16-Sep-12 19:30:28

Thanks, vamp, Bang on! Some of us enjoy a good debate, and the more difference there is between people's views, the better for discussion. So long as we discuss the subject in hand and don't get personal, debating 'snipes' are just good fun and good brain exercise. Now please, those of you who don't like such things, can those of us who do be allowed to get on with it instead of always being asked to stop just when it's getting interesting? No offence to anyone is intended. There's nothing wrong with controversy.

Lilygran Sun 16-Sep-12 19:43:11

Just staying afloat, Elegran.

whenim64 Sun 16-Sep-12 19:49:36

Excellent bags and vamp! The thing that gets wearing is the agitating and hostility, not the cut and thrust of a good debate which brings in totally opposite opinions and beliefs. If it starts getting nasty, someone always gets hurt, invariably the one who makes accusations that someone is having a go at someone else. Constant complaining seems to be motivated by a desire to spoil the debate. Leave it be, please. smile

Elegran Sun 16-Sep-12 19:57:57

I do like it when the debate stays polite and does not descend to abuse.

Greatnan Sun 16-Sep-12 20:03:57

And so say all of us, Elegran!

petallus Sun 16-Sep-12 20:14:01

I too get irritated when we are just warming up to a good debate and someone or other takes steps to calm us down.

Or complains about perceived rudeness etc.

Ariadne Sun 16-Sep-12 20:57:47

when exactly! Like debate, hate nastiness. Nuff said. So tired...

annodomini Sun 16-Sep-12 21:05:50

Debate, not dispute! OK?

gracesmum Mon 17-Sep-12 11:17:37

Gosh! To think I missed all of that yesterday! It is like high speed ping pong or whiffwhaff(?) as Boris might say.

gramps Mon 17-Sep-12 12:17:18

Dear Ladies.
I love your comments on here, and other threads.
I do believe that you could "haggle" over anything - just for the enjoyment and satisfaction should you get the last word in!

Please don't change. It's quite entertaining!

My very best wishes to you all! grin

soop Mon 17-Sep-12 13:03:29

gramps...we love you lots. smile

Greatnan Mon 17-Sep-12 13:12:09

O.K Gramps, we will see what we can do.