My daughter's late friend (who was a witch), carried out weddings (hand-fastings), too. When she died, she was cremated and DD and the 'sisters' held hands, surrounded her coffin and sang to her. They all wore beautiful ethereal clothes. Her husband wore a long green cloak and their old lurcher dog also attended the funeral wearing a posy of flowers in her collar. Her friend, who's a priestess, carried out the funeral and it was really quite beautiful. A few days later, when they had possession of her ashes, they had a big party in a field near where she lived and worked, and sent her ashes into the air in a firework! This was what she'd asked for. 