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Does God exist? I'd like to be clear in my mind

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HettyMaud Sun 29-Sep-19 22:39:34

I'm definitely not a Christian though no doubt a man did exist who perhaps was able to do things that could not be well explained. If God exists then what made God? I do feel in complete awe when I look at nature and the more I study it the more amazing it is. How can it all have come about? Yet there is so much suffering in the world. Why? I love going to churches and yet sometimes feel I'm singing and speaking words which I don't really believe and yet I enjoy it and feel close to God. Most people I'm close to are atheists but I'm not sure what I am. I'm so confused.

Alexa Sat 12-Oct-19 09:47:57

it's not a question of free will. Whether or not I think for myself is a question of who reared, socialised, and educated me.

Some individuals are taught to comply with conventional ideas and others are taught to think independently of what others think. There are times and places where one or the other way is appropriate. You can sometimes recognise the more conventional people as they may write platitudes and accept whatever religious doctrine they have been taught.

rosecarmel Sat 12-Oct-19 03:42:18

Some people question what they don't believe or do- Some don't- Isn't either an exercise of freewill?

Alexa Sat 12-Oct-19 01:20:26

Gnostic, you'd be better to keep it all as simple as possible. Each person is at the level of understanding and experience they are at.

It's clear from most of the replies that pastors have failed to get their flocks to think for themselves.

SirChenjin Fri 11-Oct-19 18:08:17

I repeat, gods do not exist.

Regardest regards to your increasing silliness

Chen

Gnostic Fri 11-Oct-19 18:05:01

SirChenjin Thu 10-Oct-19 23:00:35

"Gods do not exist DL."

No argument as far as supernatural gods are concerned.

That does not take away our responsibility to try to dissuade those who believe them real and are following immoral ideologies and hurting many of our weakest and most vulnerable and gullible.

If you are not against them, you are for them and the harm they cause.

For evil to grow and all that buddy.

Regards
DL

SirChenjin Thu 10-Oct-19 23:00:35

Gods do not exist DL. As my wise grandmother used to say, “a goat’s frown cannot stop it from being taken”.

Regardest regards,

Chen

Gnostic Thu 10-Oct-19 22:17:14

SirChenjin Thu 10-Oct-19 21:55:26

"Those who quote scriptures in an attempt to demonstrate that other posters haven’t read the bible or don’t know the verses as well as they do would do well to stop being so childish and goady smile"

Is that what you would tell your God, because I am following your bibles good advice?

Proverbs 3:12 For whom the Lord loveth he correcteth; even as a father the son in whom he delighteth.

Gnostic Christians are called the only good Christians for a reason.

Regards
DL

Gnostic Thu 10-Oct-19 22:13:47

SirChenjin

"For me, to have the God that I love and believe in, my spiritual Father scorned and insulted is offensive and I will defend Him and the love I have for Him as I would my husband, my child, a relative and a friend."

Then defend your god based on what your bible says. I have many issues that I doubt you can defend but let me speak to only one murder at his hands. I have worked that into my Gnostic Christian moral thinking.

I keep a bible in the house even though I think this quote quite correct.

“The God of the Old Testament is arguably the most unpleasant character in all fiction: jealous and proud of it; a petty, unjust, unforgiving control-freak; a vindictive, bloodthirsty ethnic cleanser; a misogynistic, homophobic, racist, infanticidal, genocidal, filicidal, pestilential, megalomaniacal, sadomasochistic, capriciously malevolent bully.”
― Richard Dawkins, The God Delusion

Then again, I am a Gnostic Christian and know how to read the filth in it.

Said of Gnostic Christian versus Christian bible reading practices.

“Both read the Bible day and night; but you read black where I read white.”
William Blake.

I would take this further and advise you to read any scriptures from as many POV as is within you. Question everything including yourself.

The bible, if read as a book of wisdom, does have much wisdom though.

You just have to read it the way Gnostics do and revers a lot of the Christian morals.

Christians call evil good while Gnostic Christians call evil, evil.

I E. Gnostic Christians think that bible God, the demiurge to us, is quite immoral for thinking that torturing King David's baby for 6 days before finally killing it is good justice. Gnostic Christians think that evil while Christians think that a good form of justice.

Which group do you think is right?

Regards
DL

Gnostic Thu 10-Oct-19 22:06:40

gmarie Thu 10-Oct-19 20:07:26

"It's always SO frustrating to be told that! SirChenjin said it well: it's not a case of not wanting to believe, you make it sound like it's a choice. Someone said people of faith don't criticise those who are not but this is a smug sort of way to do that very thing!"

Next time, give him these quotes and if that does not make him run away or retract his statement, then you will know that he is not bright enough to understand his own ideology and bible.

They show that none of us have a choice on how we believe.
That, of course, is a lie, but the bible says it is true.

Why does god harden hearts against his own wish to be believed to be god?
In 2 Corinthians 3;14 - 15 God hardens Jewish hearts against their believing in Jesus as their messiah.
John 12;39-40 says about the same. The same applies to Romans 11;25, 2 Corinthians 4;3-4,

I will open an O.P. titled, --- Are non-believers doomed by Divine Design?

Please opine in it if you think it worth your time.

Regards
DL

Gnostic Thu 10-Oct-19 21:59:02

gmarie Thu 10-Oct-19 20:07:26

"Love is omni-inclusive, progressively exquisite, understanding and compassionately attuned to other than self."

A good quote. Christians will not like it as that is against their heaven and hell non-universalist god.

Just so you know, Gnostic Christians, like that quote of yours, favors a universalist god abd have tied equality to righteousness.

That is why, unlike Christians, we are not a homophobic and misogynous religion.

gnosis.org/library/ephip.htm

That is why some say that Gnostic Christians are the only good Christians.

Regards
DL

SirChenjin Thu 10-Oct-19 21:55:26

Those who quote scriptures in an attempt to demonstrate that other posters haven’t read the bible or don’t know the verses as well as they do would do well to stop being so childish and goady smile

Chen 6:2

Gnostic Thu 10-Oct-19 21:51:15

SirChenjin Thu 10-Oct-19 16:52:24

"I agree Lucky. What does it actually achieve? It’s certainly not indicative of tolerance or mutual respect."

Can women and gays get mutual respect from a homophobic and misogynous religion when those groups are relegated to being second class citizens?

Regards
DL

Gnostic Thu 10-Oct-19 21:48:21

Luckygirl Thu 10-Oct-19 16:46:22

I think this competitive scriptural ping-pong is ample demonstration that eschewing formalised religion is the best way to go. Just be kind to each other; that is all."

I agree, and here are the biblical quotes to back us up. ;-)

You will never hear the lying preachers quote these.
You will see why.

Hebrews 6 King James Version; 1 Therefore leaving the principles of the doctrine of Christ, let us go on unto perfection; not laying again the foundation of repentance from dead works, and of faith toward God,
2 Of the doctrine of baptisms, and of laying on of hands, and of resurrection of the dead, and of eternal judgment.

Those types of enlightenment is why I quote scriptures to Christians, knowing that they likely have never read their bible.

Regards
DL

Greenfinch Thu 10-Oct-19 21:32:43

gmarie I find the parable of the sheep and the goats in Matthew's gospel very comforting because the sheep did not know they were sheep and likewise the goats did not know they were goats.Those who were saved were those who cared for their fellow men.

I am a liberal Christian and find it very difficult to accept those who are judgemental and intolerant.That is why I find some aspects of organised religion difficult to accept.Simone Weil a modern mystic felt that God always needs people who are on the edge which is where I feel I am and maybe you are too.

As for the God of the OT I have no problems as I believe the OT is the history of salvation.I believe the German is heilsgeschichte. It illustrates how mankind gradually began to understand about the nature of God or how God gradually revealed Himself to them in ways they could understand just as a young child can only comprehend little by little.The development is from the concrete to the abstract.

When I used to read in Church I could never say "This is the word of the Lord" at the end of a reading.It was more about what the people of the time thought about God and how far His revelation had got.

Doodle Thu 10-Oct-19 20:58:26

As you said smileless . My condolences too gmarie

SirChenjin Thu 10-Oct-19 20:52:26

So much offence meted out and taken in the name of religion - it’s so sad.

Smileless2012 Thu 10-Oct-19 20:29:47

My sincere condolences for your loss gmarie.

That's a lovely quote smile.

SirChenjin I respect your opinion that "competitive bible quoting is rather ridiculous" but want to say that my reasons for doing so were because the 'quotes' I was responding too were being used without their full meaning and content being represented.

Also, I fail to understand why anyone who derides the Bible would choose to use biblical quotes to try and undermine the faith of another.

For me, to have the God that I love and believe in, my spiritual Father scorned and insulted is offensive and I will defend Him and the love I have for Him as I would my husband, my child, a relative and a friend.

gmarie Thu 10-Oct-19 20:13:03

As I was typing that up, you all added some very thoughtful things (posted right above mine. Sorry for my obvious frustration and upset. My dad died recently and I've really been struggling with this stuff...

gmarie Thu 10-Oct-19 20:07:26

Re/ Those who do not believe in a god do not do so because they do not want to - they do so because they have no reason to and
I will never convince someone who doesn’t want to believe

It's always SO frustrating to be told that! SirChenjin said it well: it's not a case of not wanting to believe, you make it sound like it's a choice. Someone said people of faith don't criticise those who are not but this is a smug sort of way to do that very thing!

People like me, HettyMaud and I'd guess some others on here, HAVE been searching and learning and hoping, and, yes, praying to understand God, religion, faith for years!!

I mentioned my struggle in this regard as a child and teen in an earlier post. When the neighbor kids told me my parents were going to go to hell for not "believing", I bought a tiny, plastic gumball machine bible that would show the Lord's Prayer when you held it up to the light. I memorized that thing and said the prayer EVERY night for a YEARS, worrying about my family. No magical belief dropped upon me.

Then, when I went to 5 or 6 different churches with friends and asked questions, I found out that Christians believed that atheists like my parents, Muslims, Buddhists, Jews and all manner of other folk would be sent to burn in hell forever; that's a majority of the world's population! Charles Manson and Ted Bundy could accept Jesus and get a free pass. That defies belief! My stepson is gay and the way many interpret the Bible, he would be cast into hell, as well.

I read the Bible, some sections like the Gospels and Revelation several times, to a hospice patient because it gave him comfort. I was always struck by the smiting and striking down of people approved by the God of the Bible. Why would anyone choose to believe in a god like that?!

I do believe we are more than a physical body and I believe we are here to love and care one another. I have this R. Buckminster Fuller quote on my wall and believe its sentiment. My God would as well.

Love is omni-inclusive, progressively exquisite, understanding and compassionately attuned to other than self.

SirChenjin Thu 10-Oct-19 18:30:17

I think it’s probably for the best - competitive bible quoting is rather ridiculous.

Smileless2012 Thu 10-Oct-19 17:46:26

Providing different views are presented in a polite and respectful way, there is nothing intolerant or lacking in respect SirChenjin; not in my posts anyway.

I do see though that Gnostics posts are lacking in both so wont be responding to her anymore.

SirChenjin Thu 10-Oct-19 16:52:24

I agree Lucky. What does it actually achieve? It’s certainly not indicative of tolerance or mutual respect.

Luckygirl Thu 10-Oct-19 16:46:22

I think this competitive scriptural ping-pong is ample demonstration that eschewing formalised religion is the best way to go. Just be kind to each other; that is all.

SirChenjin Thu 10-Oct-19 16:39:18

Regards, Chen hmm

SirChenjin Thu 10-Oct-19 16:39:02

And there we are - competitive quoting from the bible in an attempt to prove/disprove other people’s beliefs. What a sad state of affairs.