How old do you have to be to have religion? [Title edited by GNHQ at OP's request]

We went to a Protestant church and school in Liverpool but was not involved in the Orange Lodge as my dad said he had seen enough fighting over religion over the years.
I took my children to the local Sunday school to see if they wanted to join in. They were not remotely interested so they didn’t go again that was their choice. I didn’t get the choice as a child I was herded off to church whether I wanted to go or not. I still know all the prayers every word but don’t have any interest as I didn’t as a child.

There is no reason to segregate schoolchildren on the basis of their parents religion or on any other basis.

The racial segregation which was once the norm in South Africa and parts of the USA now appalls us.

It would be equally absurd in my view to segregate children on the basis of parents politics so that four year olds went to a Labour school or a Tory school.

Segregation often leads to uninformed prejudice, integration is more likely to result in better understanding and tolerance.

Parents will pass on their values, their religious and political beliefs to their children and in due course the children will form their own views.

My father caused a family row by refusing to have me baptised. His view was that when I was old enough to understand, I could choose whatever religion I wanted - or none. His one concession was that my granny could take me to Church of Scotland Sunday School every week. That went well for a child who loved to ask questions and refused to accept that she simply had to 'believe'. I'm now an atheist who thinks religion should play no part in a state education. Yes, pupils should be educated about different religions, but actual worship should be kept out of schools. If parents want their children to have a religious education, it should be in a private setting.

None of my children were believers when they were young. Now 2 of them are but they came to it later in life, as I did. I consider myself lucky and am eternally grateful that I was ‘grabbed’, nothing I did to earn it and that’s for sure!

My parents were good people but with no particular religion ( I don’t think) although mum got more religious in later life although never a church goer She sent me to a catholic school as it had a good reputation and she had had poor schooling owing to her dads job moving them around and Nan not wanting to send her to different schools She was always resentful of missing out Anyway I enjoyed my school life (she made the right decision) I was taught by nuns who were for the most part kind and I thought good teachers I suppose there was more religion involved than in other schools and for a while as a young child I was interested but I think it was the sense of belonging that interested me
I m not a church goer as an adult I envy people with a strong belief I d love to have that, I have tried obviously not hard enough
My dad had no belief but was a good man who lived an honest simple and kind life I hope I have been similar although I know I ve made a lot more mistakes than him

Children are the religion their parents follow, often related to where they live, until they are old enough to choose. Sometimes they rebel and abandon religion altogether, sometimes their faith plays a meaningful part in their lives.

Siope

I went to state not church schools and those in England always had regular assembly, with hymns and the Lord’s Prayer, presumably because of England having a state church. There were two or three Catholic kids in my year, and they were not allowed into assemblies, which feels very wrong to me now, but in those days most of us who did have to sit through the tedium were very envious of those who did not.

Yes, we always had an assembly each morning with hymns and couple of prayers; the two Catholic pupils and one Jewsh pupil sat in a classroom next to the assembly hall.

Our Headmistress was a Quaker; presumably a short religious assembly was a requirement in those days.

I was raised in a weird family. My father's mother married twice - once to a Catholic and then to a member of the Orange Order! Considering the animosity between these two groups (especially in my native Liverpool) you can imagine the divisions in the family! My father was brought up by a Catholic aunt but he had half brothers and sisters who were active in the Orange Order.

My mother's family were C of E so not particulatly strong on religious beliefs. My grandmother had her own quiet beliefs but never tried to foist them on me. At age 11 I decided I did not believe in a Christian type god and have never altered my views.

Im always fascinated by what other people believe and have often had conversations with Moslems, Hindus, Mormons and other groups about their faiths. For me religion is a subject of intellectual interest only.

There are no Catholic or Muslim (or any other faith) children; only parents who direct their children down a particular route.

We are all born unsullied by religion or indeed politics. We make choices as we become adults.

My parents were strict and ideological atheists. Religion was the opium of the people and a crutch for the weak.

I'm very glad my secondary school had a gentle christian service run every morning by a kind methodist headteacher. A hymn, the Lords Prayer, and sometimes a short reading generally on love and compassion. No "Creed" was of course pushed on us. I didnt know what is was until our multi cultural RE/social education lessons.

It was a warm progressive school for its time, I admit. Just an ordinary Technical High School but an extraordinary headteacher who had come back at the end of his career to make a new school as he thought wise.

so when in my 30's I found myself singing the old hymns and having feelings that could only be described as being in the spiritual domain, I found a home in the Quakers, after trying the local C of E church, but finding that demanding I adhere to a "creed" unpalatable. I remain the only one with any faith in my family, which I find sad as they associate faith with a crutch and a myth whereas it is alive and forever questioning, "what love demands of us".

It gave me choices I would not otherwise have had.

I don’t see a problem, children and their friends at nursery often go to different schools later on.
They make friends wherever they go.Religion doesn't mean much at a young age in any case.
Up to parents to decide on, and children make their own choices when they get older.

Sago

Isn’t that what confirmation is?
I was brought up as a Catholic but had a choice as I got older.

At what age?

I went to state not church schools and those in England always had regular assembly, with hymns and the Lord’s Prayer, presumably because of England having a state church. There were two or three Catholic kids in my year, and they were not allowed into assemblies, which feels very wrong to me now, but in those days most of us who did have to sit through the tedium were very envious of those who did not.

Isn’t that what confirmation is?
I was brought up as a Catholic but had a choice as I got older.

As the son of an Italian father DH was brought up a Catholic. Oddly enough the thing that turned him off religion was not his Catholic background but the Anglican secondary modern he went to that insisted on assembly every morning in the church attached to the school. He wasn't impressed by a faith that had to be continually forced on them.

I was raised a catholic,I had no problem with that as a child.Never had any of the "evil" nuns people talk about in fact all but one nun were great teachers .in my opinion.When I was born children in catholic families were baptised within a week of their birth we were taken to mass every Sunday from then until we were old enough to go on our own .

My parents were a mixed marriage Dad was raised in the orange lodge but married mum in the Catholic church so we could go to catholic school .
When I met my OH his father was an orangeman and a member of the freemasons .HE said if I took his sons name I should take his religion and marry in his chrch.We were very young OH was just 19 so we talked it through together and with my parents and we did what FIL wanted.My children were raised in the CH of Scotland .
What I discovered was there are NO non denominational schools in Scotland the schools my kids went to had visits weekly from a local minister,morning prayers and bible study.
Therefore I can see no reason why parents cant decide to send their children to a school that follows their own beliefs.The convent school I attended also had girls (single sex school) who were of many other faiths ,Jewish,Moslem ,Hindu being some who were in my class and whose parents thought it was more suitable for their girls .
I was still friends with the kids in the street who went to a different school..still am 60 odd years later .I dont see what your problem is Varian,if these kids ahd gone to a private school we'd still have been separated at 5

I have seen kids obsessed with religion at 3 yo because it was how their parents chose to raise- not my circus nor my monkeys

It was a disturbing to see how they would put God before parents and their well being

The parents were so proud though as they were super religious

As an atheist, I am letting my kids make their own choices

I know people who had a faith at 10. And one at 8.
Not 4.