I understand that the Christian concept which is widely promoted and accepted now is the one of forgiveness of sins. So it may be that someone enters a marriage honestly and openly but it doesn't work out. And I can accept that in that case a person might want to remarry. But I don't understand how a religious person having seen those vows are unkeepable can then make a second lot. How far is god prepared to let this happen? for a second or even a third or fourth time?
It used to be that religious people stuck to certain rules (and of course there were those who only pretended to do so) but now it seems you can be religious and just adapt the rules when they don't suit you, and I wonder just how far someone could take that.
So I don't think it is a question of examining one person's faith against another's. It's asking is religion anything to do with rules and standards or just purely a question of belief? And if it is the latter can dreadful things be done by the religious and forgiven?
Terrible relationship with DIL - am I the problem?
