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quaker meetings

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red1 Sun 22-Jun-25 17:12:20

thanks for replies, the tenets of quakerism are, truth, equality, simplicity and peace, in this crazy, broken world they don't seem achievable or practical ,that why i used the word, lofty.

eddiecat78 Sun 22-Jun-25 13:37:07

My grandparents were Quakers - G'pa was a conscientious objector during WW1.
My dad was mainly a Methodist but also a member of the Quakers and attended meetings quite regularly. Mum reckonned it was just to get some peace and quiet but it meant a lot to him. His Methodist Minister also sometimes attended.

argymargy Sun 22-Jun-25 13:34:14

One of my grandparents was a Quaker. I went to a meeting once as a child and it was very quiet, calm and peaceful. As butterandjam says, if you feel moved to speak, you can. "Lofty" is not a word I would ever use to describe Quakers or their meetings. The opposite, really.

butterandjam Sun 22-Jun-25 13:25:59

red1

Im thinking of visiting a quaker meeting anyone have any experience,ive read a brief background in the beliefs but they seem a little lofty? i guess that applies to all religions, but then some say quakerism is not a religion, im confused!

Dear friends of ours were quakers. They were the most down to earth people; and also incredibly kind and non-judgemental.

I never went to Quaker meetings but I often saw both at other meetings in multiple different contexts. Listening respectfully; inclusive, courteous, positive.

When George died I went to his quaker funeral at the crematorium. We all went in and sat down quietly. There was no minister, leader, or person in charge. No service, prayers readings music. From time to time, someone would stand up and say a bit about George then sit down. Informal; sometimes serious, sometimes funny (just like G himself).
Some spoke, some did not. So peaceful, thoughtful. The goodness of George was palpable in that meeting of people, just as it had been every time I was with him. .

From George when he told me he was dying.

" The way I see it, this cancer is going to die of George".

keepingquiet Sun 22-Jun-25 13:22:06

Why not give it a go? Quakers are at least pacifists and I think we need all of those we can get these days...

knspol Sun 22-Jun-25 13:12:04

I don't know anything about Quakers but think it's great that you're open minded enough to try something different, I hope you find it fulfilling.

Shinamae Sun 22-Jun-25 12:30:53

My good friend goes regularly to the Quaker meetings and find them a great comfort… Very peaceful, she tells me…

nanna8 Sun 22-Jun-25 12:17:26

Some of my ancestors were Quakers way back when in the Lake District. One of my daughters is also interested in them, I think they have a lot of prayer at their Meeting houses. Good people.

red1 Sun 22-Jun-25 12:13:03

Im thinking of visiting a quaker meeting anyone have any experience,ive read a brief background in the beliefs but they seem a little lofty? i guess that applies to all religions, but then some say quakerism is not a religion, im confused!