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Researchers have created eggs from the cells of male mice, raising the prospect of male couples having their own children...

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boheminan Wed 08-Mar-23 19:40:13

Oh brave new world

VioletSky Tue 14-Mar-23 22:25:17

Not really, I grew all my babies in my uterus, that's its secondary function, the primary is still abject pointless misery every month or so.

It's no big deal

Galaxy Tue 14-Mar-23 22:29:21

As I have said I find the language used around surrogacy quite de humanising.

VioletSky Tue 14-Mar-23 22:35:03

OK, well, I think it's a surrogates personal choice and none of my business so...

VioletSky Tue 14-Mar-23 22:40:41

Also FYI I wasn't referring to a surrogate as a uterus, I was simply referring to a uterus

I don't walk into a doctors office and say
"My woman hurts"

I don't actually really ever refer to myself a woman at all

I'm Violet with or without a uterus... preferably without but doctors eh

Glorianny Tue 14-Mar-23 22:41:19

I don't suppose this research will be applicable to humans in the near future, but theoretically why not?
If a child is loved and wanted and science can help people to have a child I can see no harm in it.

Galaxy Tue 14-Mar-23 22:48:36

The thing is lots of people do see ethical issues with surrogacy, it's why some European countries ban it, it's why there have been some horrendous exploitation of the most vulnerable wonen, that's without going into the issues that face those whose child has a disability. So I think its society's business really.

VioletSky Tue 14-Mar-23 22:54:38

Well, that's a quick and easy way to stop gay men having kids

I suppose sperm donation is also unethical even though men do it for free on a good Saturday night so that rules out lesbians too

Can't have babies? Tough doo doo, you would have made a wonderful mum but its too unethical to use a surrogate, even though some would want to help you..

Marvelous, what misery and inequality can we spread next?

Galaxy Tue 14-Mar-23 22:56:51

I know imagine thinking that an issue might be quite complex.

Galaxy Tue 14-Mar-23 23:00:40

There is an inequality fundamental to paid surrogacy for example. But am guessing that inequality and misery doesnt count.

nanna8 Tue 14-Mar-23 23:01:29

Well at least they’d only have one poor child, man-flu magnified, can you imagine it ? Why would they do experiments like this anyway? Can’t they look for cancer cures or something useful?

VioletSky Tue 14-Mar-23 23:05:38

I am going to say this with emphasis

The answer to some humans taking advantage of other humans should not be something that is taken out on those human beings who want to give/receive help to/from each other

We safeguard it, we don't ban it

I've seen total strangers line up to be tested for donation

People give blood freely

It's a wonderful world despite the darkness

Galaxy Tue 14-Mar-23 23:09:02

You cant compare children to giving blood.
I would be very very concerned if there were a financial incentive to that as well though.

Galaxy Tue 14-Mar-23 23:14:55

I think once money is involved it's pretty impossible to safeguard.

VioletSky Tue 14-Mar-23 23:22:35

I think you need more understanding about how it works financially where it is well safeguarded

Blossoming Tue 14-Mar-23 23:27:15

Grantanow

No doubt some busybody will want to ban it.

I want to ban it. Too many children are being born, this is ludicrous.

nanna8 Tue 14-Mar-23 23:31:35

It’s a long way from mice to humans, thank the Lord.

Galaxy Tue 14-Mar-23 23:33:41

grin I dont need more understanding I just hold a different opinion to you.

Rosie51 Tue 14-Mar-23 23:38:54

VioletSky

Not really, I grew all my babies in my uterus, that's its secondary function, the primary is still abject pointless misery every month or so.

It's no big deal

Actually the primary function of your uterus is as an organ in which to safely gestate an infant. The fact that shedding its redundant lining each month causes you misery is just unfortunate, but does not downgrade its intended purpose.

I wonder if scientists are looking to create 'sperm' from two females to enable two women to have their own children...... nah thought not, and the men's rights activists won't be criticising them for their bias.

Rosie51 Tue 14-Mar-23 23:40:19

Children are not a commodity, nor a 'right'. They should never be bought nor sold and that applies at every level.

nanna8 Tue 14-Mar-23 23:46:24

Good thought Rosie. I agree with you.

maddyone Tue 14-Mar-23 23:49:06

Galaxy

There is an inequality fundamental to paid surrogacy for example. But am guessing that inequality and misery doesnt count.

There’s an inequality with IVF too. Many people can’t access IVF via the NHS and the sum we paid for our daughter and son in law’s IVF at a top London clinic was eye watering. But worth it for the results.

maddyone Tue 14-Mar-23 23:50:04

Rosie51

Children are not a commodity, nor a 'right'. They should never be bought nor sold and that applies at every level.

Do you mean people shouldn’t pay for IVF?

maddyone Tue 14-Mar-23 23:50:52

Our gay son adopted his child, our grandson.

Galaxy Tue 14-Mar-23 23:56:50

I am talking about the inequality between the surrogate and those who pay. Strangely enough it generally isnt the likes of Kim Kardashian who are being surrogates.

Rosie51 Tue 14-Mar-23 23:59:16

maddyone

Rosie51

Children are not a commodity, nor a 'right'. They should never be bought nor sold and that applies at every level.

Do you mean people shouldn’t pay for IVF?

No that's not what I mean. My own recent twin grandchildren were the result of IVF. I do know the heartache behind fertility issues. The multiple private IVF treatments necessary to enable the birth of these babies nearly bankrupted the couple, but that was their choice. Nobody else was involved, they didn't "rent a womb" or endanger a woman's life to carry a pregnancy for them.
I wept for my child's longing for a child, but I could never have condoned the 'purchase' of a child. Adoption is quite different. I still maintain the child is paramount, the parent/s are secondary.