Cheelu JO5 I very much doubt that Gransnet is ever going to remain a "soft place to fall" and sweetness and light for long thoughout the new year. Perhaps everyone is taking time to regroup for the next row! We have just been playing football in no mans land!

Seriously Cheelu I know you were a little taken aback by the heated discussion which got going when you had first joined.
It will happen, when there is a debate about a controversial issue, some of us thrive on it others do not, there are some issues I stay well clear of.
It is still the case that if someone is in difficulties or upset there is a lot of support here. It is surprising that a virtual ((((hug))) can make a difference.