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Soutra Mon 10-Feb-14 17:58:56

With a webchat on Internet Security I feel now might be the time to tackle the issue of "undesirables". By this I mean someone like an OP recently who turns out to be a former member barred for his/her conduct in the past. A thread started by this person has been deleted but his/her change of persona went unheeded for some days until he/she went "too far". There have been other instances of a former member "reappearing" and then dropping out of sight sharpish when challenged. We all know a change of name following deregistration and re- registration is allowed and usually it is because a member is afraid their anonymity has been compromised and not for any subversive or malign purpose.
The answer from GNHQ is to report suspicious posts to them and leave them to do the policing but given that there are those who slip through the net and stir up dissension when challenged, is this enough? We need to remember not to give away too much personal information especially any which might identify us but at the same time the essence of GN is to be able to pour your heart out and seek advice/sympathy/comfort. I hate the thought that there are predatory posters checking out ex-wives of millionaires, people's financial background or housing or care home issues. Is there a way forward? confused

Ana Tue 11-Feb-14 21:26:37

Yes, I wondered about that too! grin

Galen Tue 11-Feb-14 21:31:34

Rose some people are not tough cynical tough old Asians like us.
They can get inveigled by plausible sounding persons into other problems.
I personally find it very strange that Frank has tried on two recent occasions to represent himself as a female, yet at the same time, giving an identical history.(and dog name)

Galen Tue 11-Feb-14 21:32:31

Btw. The ex wife is NOT ME!

Dragonfly1 Tue 11-Feb-14 21:32:50

Thank you Elegran.

kittylester Tue 11-Feb-14 21:33:00

I have no idea what's going on - again!! Am I thick or just an innocent abroad - no don't answer that!! [confused[

Elegran Tue 11-Feb-14 21:35:32

I missed the ex-wives of millionaires. That is definitely not me.

Dragonfly1 Tue 11-Feb-14 21:36:28

I'm sorry, I've now got the giggles over the image of a cross-dressing dog owner with a penchant for trolling.

Galen Tue 11-Feb-14 21:36:59

confused I typed Avians Not Asians!

Galen Tue 11-Feb-14 21:38:10

Dragonflygrin

Dragonfly1 Tue 11-Feb-14 21:38:24

Predictive text strikes again.

Lona Tue 11-Feb-14 21:40:52

I've already mentioned that I'm an ex wife of a millionaire, but I've not been checked out by any predatory posters!
hmm

Galen Tue 11-Feb-14 21:50:13

We must have at least two then. We weren't thinking of you.
How many more of you have been married to millionaires?
I just wish I had.

Lona Tue 11-Feb-14 22:00:22

Trust me Galen You don't!

glassortwo Tue 11-Feb-14 22:10:12

kitty you and me both, think I have lost the plot.

Ana Tue 11-Feb-14 22:11:18

Must have missed that post, Lona grin

But if you haven't been harassed by any posters, I don't really see why anyone needs to get their knickers in a twist in case they might. As has been said, this is an open site.

Galen Tue 11-Feb-14 22:13:57

Another one has been.

Ana Tue 11-Feb-14 22:14:58

What, another ex-millionaire's wife? shock

Ana Tue 11-Feb-14 22:16:10

Or millionaire's ex-wife, even hmm

bikergran Tue 11-Feb-14 22:17:52

kitty and glass me too! I knew I should have gone to school.grin I would have learned about "plots" and things hmm

Galen Tue 11-Feb-14 22:24:57

Just forget it! Trust me!(I'm a dr?) he's not a good idea!(that's Frank)

Oldgreymare Tue 11-Feb-14 22:39:51

Totally, totally confused.
Lie you Kitty I always seem to miss the excitement!

Oldgreymare Tue 11-Feb-14 22:40:14

Sorry.... like not lie!

Nelliemoser Tue 11-Feb-14 23:15:22

Ana The advice given by that person whilst helping their "friends" with care funding appeals might have been accurate, but if they were working for any advocacy organisation they should have been sacked on the spot for breaking confidentiality.

I very much doubt if these "friends" knew what was happening to the information or had consented to these descriptions of their circumstances and general location being revealed on an open forum.

Those threads gave away a lot of details of peoples individual circumstances. IMO that is totally unacceptable.
I understand there were other issues as well.

Lona Wed 12-Feb-14 09:18:33

Have I missed being propositioned by HF(or FH)? Double damn!! wink

Dragonfly1 Wed 12-Feb-14 09:20:59

It's so long since I was propositioned by anyone I doubt I'd recognise it if it happened.