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soontobe Fri 29-May-15 10:32:31

I would like some advice please.

On some threads, I am asked question after question after question etc[plus a couple of not so nice comments] about what I have posted.

At what point should I refuse to answer any more posts, even if they are incorrect about me or someone has got the wrong end of the stick about something I have posted.

I know I dont have to answer, but I dont like misconceptions about what I have posted. Plus no matter how many posts I answer, there are still more questions. I am actually quite happy to answer them. But is that ok with gransnet ok?
[Any bad feeling on a thread about me,I can more than deal with and I dont have a problem with]

I think this happens to other posters as well, but maybe they dont have quite as many questions asked of them as I do.

thatbags Sun 31-May-15 13:53:55

Actually, looking at it today, it's maroon rather than purple.

Katek Sun 31-May-15 10:34:55

DH in his 60's still has full head of hair as does fil at 87. DH is envy of lot of younger chaps in work who are almost totally bald. It does make a difference to how he's perceived as he's often taken as 10 years younger.

trisher Sun 31-May-15 10:22:37

So is one of my DSs much to my DGS's amusement. I dyed my hair red a few years ago for around 18 months, then I got fed up of the upkeep and went back to my usual blonde/grey. When it was red people kept saying they liked it, but when it was back to blonde same people said "Oh you look better!" Mixed messages or what?

Anya Sun 31-May-15 10:00:58

Prince William is losing his hair I noticed.

Lilygran Sun 31-May-15 09:56:25

Triumph of creativity. Or something

grumppa Sat 30-May-15 22:44:21

Is this the thread that has "labyrinthined" itself furthest from the OP in the shortest time? If so, we deserve a collective pat on the back.

Ana Sat 30-May-15 22:43:54

Well, he's lucky to have any left at his age!

Anya Sat 30-May-15 22:31:33

As does Rod Stewart grin

Ana Sat 30-May-15 22:28:15

I doubt she's ever wanted to have a blue rinse, really. She could have changed her hairstyle over the years but never has (and of course her daughter takes after her! grin)

Anya Sat 30-May-15 22:23:50

I wonder if she ever wishes she could though? As a young girl, she and Princess Margaret did go out, incognito, to celebrate with the crowds the end of WW2.

Ana Sat 30-May-15 22:10:26

No, she wouldn't dare! The press would be on it like pirhanas 'Queen goes Blue'! She'd have to have a red rinse the next week to pacify the other side...wink

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 30-May-15 21:52:48

We were debating whether the queen has ever had a blue rinse.

rosesarered Sat 30-May-15 21:49:40

Do you remember seeing all those older women around years ago with lilac coloured permed hair?A bit Mrs Slocombe.

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 30-May-15 20:34:43

shock That's strange ethelb. Was only just talking to DD about hair dying. She suggested purple but I said I would like it bleached, and then a pale shade of pink applied. Like the geranium I bought from the nursery this afternoon.

merlotgran Sat 30-May-15 20:29:54

My natural hair colour was dark mouse. When I decided the salt and pepper look was not for me I had cap highlights, gradually getting lighter and lighter and increasing the amount pulled through until that wonderful day when my hairdresser said I could stop as the grey had taken over.

I kept it short and layered so any dark grey could be cut out but now it's a layered bob.

janeainsworth Sat 30-May-15 20:20:26

envious not sure what you mean by 'frosting' - perhaps it's what we call highlights?
For a while I had lowlights and never really understood the difference confused
I think successful hair colouring is quite technical and it's worth going to a professional who knows what they're doing, as hair varies so much.

Ana Sat 30-May-15 20:10:35

Let's hope there isn't a next time! (hospital stay, I mean smile)

loopylou Sat 30-May-15 20:09:18

Go for it ethel!

etheltbags1 Sat 30-May-15 19:49:45

I dyed my hair just before going into hospital, a nice red, dark and purple, everyone seems to like it. I didn't want to go around half grey half brown but I really wanted pink, maybe next time.

kittylester Sat 30-May-15 19:01:49

I have one daughter who has blonde hair and one who has blonde highlights and one whose hair frightens me to death mostly!! grin

Soutra Sat 30-May-15 18:40:13

Go for it etheltbags we've missed your pithy contributions, while some have merely been taking the pith hmm

whitewave Sat 30-May-15 18:32:10

I colour my hair sort of a similar colour to what I had before I went grey. Now here's the thing I haven't a clue what my natural hair colour is so it might be a horrible pepper and salt but how do you grow your hair out without it looking dreadful as it grows out? Mind you friends I consult say I would be better keeping the colour for the time but have wondered as it would make life a lot easier.

Envious Sat 30-May-15 18:18:55

I tried frosting my hair as I was turning grey/ white. Even the bleach wouldn't effect my grey/white hair. I guess my only choice is to pick a dark colour? I tried temp.colour..the grey would always take colour differently. Luckily my hair has changed slowly to white around my face mixed with my brown and doesn't look to bad like it first did. At first in pics I looked like I didn't have much hair where the white was coming in! confused

Katek Sat 30-May-15 18:08:26

Ethel....is that you home? Have I missed the notice of your return to the forum? Hope you're feeling well smile

loopylou Sat 30-May-15 18:00:26

When DS and his best friend left school they bleached friend's hair.....and DS's eyebrows. As DS was very dark haired it looked decidedly odd, to say the least. Clearly they just thought they use bleach without any neutraliser so friend's hair and DS's eyebrows were an odd shade of orangey yellow grin