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Bez Tue 18-Aug-15 13:53:24

Today while scrolling down though the new posts on my thread the Gransnet one came up - I usually just glance at that and have not looked at the whole post in detail for a long time. The whole of the thread about DNA came up which surprised me and then I looked further and found the whole discussion about caravan parks was there too. - I did not look any further.
I do not think that this is what posters expect - some of the things people put on their posts can make them identifiable by people who know them and while appreciating that anything you write on line is not 'safe' I did not expect to see this when Facebook is a totally different place to a site such as here.
I realise many of you may well be aware of this but people who do not use Facebook will not.

kittylester Tue 18-Aug-15 13:59:22

I use Facebook Bez but not the GN one. I was concerned that they would link up so decided against it. No GN posts have come up on my own FB page. I'm confused now!

Elegran Tue 18-Aug-15 13:59:33

Put this on "site stuff" , Bez It is something that needs to be addressed at site level.

Bez Tue 18-Aug-15 14:07:54

Am I able to move it over ? I looked through and couldn't see that heading - obviously looked in the wrong place!!

hildajenniJ Tue 18-Aug-15 14:08:36

I get Gnet posts on my timeline too. I haven't actually looked at them as I am on Gransnet regularly. I will "click on" it next time I see one and find out what is going on. If I think that what is on there is inappropriate, I will definitely report it to GNHQ.

Bez Tue 18-Aug-15 14:09:40

Kitty at some point I 'liked' Gransnet and it comes up in my feed - I see all my other groups and friends on the same thread.

Bez Tue 18-Aug-15 14:11:19

I wondered if many people knew about it - I was horrified to see the whole thread.

janerowena Tue 18-Aug-15 14:55:13

Oh no! I specifically don't use facebook gransnet because this is my real name!

Grannyknot Tue 18-Aug-15 14:59:49

Actually that's really annoying. I've never had anything to do with GN's facebook page and now my caravan thread is on there!

I specifically keep my facebook usage at a very low level.

bez please ask GNHQ to investigate. I think you can report this whole thread and click on "Other" and explain.

angry

Teetime Tue 18-Aug-15 15:02:34

I 'liked' Gransnet and it came up on Facebook - I shall go and 'unlike' it now I don't really want them to overlap.

Bez Tue 18-Aug-15 15:04:35

I have asked them to move the thread to Site stuff as Elegran suggested - maybe they will look at it then.

Bez Tue 18-Aug-15 15:06:00

Yes but even if you are not on their Facebook page will it make it stop on other threads - I think it unlikely - everyone else will still see it all.

LucyGransnet (GNHQ) Tue 18-Aug-15 15:11:45

Hi Bez, yes we do post links to particularly interesting threads on social media once in a while - we are a social media site and depend on attracting more and more visitors so that we can keep the site going and continue to try and improve it.

Please remember that Gransnet is an open forum and anyone can view the threads on here - they don't need to be a member. We don't include any usernames on the Facebook posts, but rather just link to the discussion, usually with an illustrative quote and image to explain what the thread is about. This is something we, along with Mumsnet, have always done.

Gransnet posts will only appear in someone's newsfeed if they have specifically 'liked' our page, though anyone can go in search of us on Facebook.

LucyGransnet (GNHQ) Tue 18-Aug-15 15:16:35

Also, just to reassure everyone - there is no way of linking your Gransnet profile to your Facebook account, it's not technically possible. So, if there's a thread on Facebook that you happen to have commented on, all anyone will know about (once they've actually clicked through to the thread on Gransnet) is your anonymous username - they will not see your Facebook account at any stage.

Bez Tue 18-Aug-15 16:33:04

That was what we were actually discussing as one member says that it is her name so was more concerned!

Grannyknot Tue 18-Aug-15 17:14:04

Lucy I do realise this is a public forum and sometimes when I want to search for a thread on GN, I resort to Google (because the search function on here is hopeless) and I usually find what I am looking for.

"Grannychats" on here is one thing but an open page on facebook is another matter altogether.

As far as the caravan thread goes, I'm out (as a dragon would say).

thatbags Tue 18-Aug-15 18:15:18

It's not an open page on FB. That is what Lucy is trying to say. Links to Gransnet threads will only appear on your FB page if you have 'liked' the Gransnet FB page. So, if you have 'liked' the GN FB page and if you're worried, unlike it. End of problem. Not that I think there is a problem. The whole thread will only appear via FB if you click on the link.

LucyGransnet (GNHQ) Tue 18-Aug-15 18:18:58

Bez, that member is welcome to change her username if her anonymity is threatened - we're always happy to do so if that is a genuine concern.

Grannyknot, sorry you feel that way (and agree the search function could be better blush). An open page on here really isn't that much different than an open page on Facebook though, except the FB post only shows a small 'teaser' of what the thread is about - the end result is exactly the same and most people who interact with our page will be gransnetters or followers of the site anyway. Whether someone has found a thread through Google, or clicked a link on Facebook, the fact remains that they will see a comment made by an anonymous (thanks to their username) poster.

It's also worth mentioning that a lot of visitors do find us while simply Googling other things. Certain key words will bring up threads from the site without even mentioning Gransnet, so it's always worth thinking about whether you're happy for your post to go on an open forum - because it really is open.

Obviously we'd never start promoting a sensitive thread on other platforms, we are careful about that, but part of being a forum is that we want people to come and visit us and join in the discussions. Keeping them hush hush wouldn't work for the type of site that we are.

Also, I just want to reiterate that Gransnet and Facebook are not technically linked. Every post that appears on FB is chosen by us and only a link to the thread, plus an illustrative quote is shown. Even if you've liked our FB page, there's still no connection anyone could make between your GN and FB account unless you've used your real name on both sites, and had commented or liked that FB post. It's not advisable to use your real name on an open forum if you are concerned about anonymity - but then some people aren't particularly bothered, it's very much a personal choice.

If anyone has used their real name as their username and wants to change, just get in touch.

Grannyknot Tue 18-Aug-15 18:42:37

Thanks for further explanation bags and Lucy. However (and maybe I just don't understand) and by way of explanation from my side, as I understand fb: i am on two "Closed Groups" on Facebook where I asked to join the group and an admin person added me. So that's what is different - the Gransnet facebook page is public. So to me it is an open page.

A closed group is not public and therefore different to getting notifications from an open or public facebook page because you've "liked" it.

janeainsworth Tue 18-Aug-15 18:57:52

Gk Anyone who logs onto Gransnet, whether they're a member or not, can see your caravan thread and anything else you write.

Not sure how accessing GN via Facebook is any different?
All that the Gransnet page on FB does is provide a link to your thread, and it's only visible to people who have 'liked' Gransnet's page, anyway.

Don't worry be happy smile

Elegran Tue 18-Aug-15 19:15:57

It is said often on the forums, that they are not closed - anyone at all can see them. If you were to post that you hate the names your neighbour has given her children, and quote those names, and go on to say that their BMW car blocks your drive and their purple and yellow striped curtains give you a migraine, then if said neighbour comes across that thread while searching the net for, say, any mention of the "unique" name they gave their beloved daughter, and notices the name of their equally weirdly labelled adored son, plus a BMW, then purple and yellow striped curtains - well, they are going to be in no doubt who posted it and what you think of them, are they?

Bez Tue 18-Aug-15 19:25:59

If people are really interested to see what is said on this site then they can come onto it - Facebook is used by many more people than here - and some sites come up in the news streams for people to like and also Facebook suggest sites for you look at or like - therefore I think it is very public and can be seen by more people. That is why I was very surprised to see a whole thread come up.

rubylady Tue 18-Aug-15 19:33:07

As said in "My Fair Lady" - Just keep it to talking about your health and the weather!

Bez Tue 18-Aug-15 20:38:37

Despite some obvious disquiet about Facebook posts - the bull running one is up in all it's glory now.

Grannyknot Tue 18-Aug-15 20:48:45

Bez your post of 19:25 is what I mean.

jane I understand that, but see above.

Anyway I get it now, the same people who would 'like' GN on fb, and be bothered to read the threads, are likely to have an interest in these forums (so, not everyone on fb).