MB, on the point of changing names, the rules are VERY clear on GN:
Quote: 'Username-changing
We discourage members from changing their usernames because we want everyone to be able to trust the relationships they build with others on Gransnet. However, you will be able to change your username once for sensitive threads. Alternatively, contact us directly at [email protected] if you think your current username is too identifying.' unquote.
Thefore posts mentioning this were indeed targeted at those who we know have changed names again, and again, and ... again. They know who they are. And yes, as GN says, it leads to trust issues and at times it takes a long time to work out who is who, and was who before, and before that again.
Which is why, although personal attacks by some would have made it more comfortable to change identity- I have made sure any change would NOT try and hide my identity at all. granjura, juragran and juragran 2. Now I would not have mentioned this again, but since you did...