GNHQ here - please read

Hardly been in much over the last few days so can’t comment except to say it would be nice to have a reasoned debate.

Absolutely on-side with your reminder Lara to respect all posters who are making valid points or giving their opinions.
Insults and disrespect spiral downwards into nasty abuse very quickly. Let’s keep chatting, debating, swapping ideas, tips and experiences and keep Gransnet a fine platform to post on. ?

This isn’t a thread to air political grievances on, simply one to make us aware that GNHQ want posters to rein in personal remarks and stick to whatever subject is on the threads.

Message deleted by Gransnet for troll-hunting.

Not everyone, Flying handbag.
You are correct in that times are difficult and we should be kind to each other. Posters should be able to debate without resorting to vitriol, but unfortunately some posters seem to be unable to do this. ☹️

I haven't noticed you posting much, so I hope you are ok.

Everyone seems to want to make vitriolic remarks to one another at a time when we should all be kind to one another. Lockdown is very hard, and some of us may be struggling and a cruel comment may tip someone over the edge. It should bring out the best in everyone not the worst. We're all in this together. X

I have seen some posts that I really dislike and feel strongly about but I haven't been especially aware of "personal" attacks. What threads are these supposed to be on?

Thank you for that. It is very dispiriting to start a thread and then have to sit back and watch unpleasant things said. There is the temptation to feel somehow responsible when you have initiated the thread.

Threads about the most inane subjects can get out of hand.
It's about time it was kept in check a bit.

I always try to be respectful, but it is becoming increasingly difficult to tolerate those who defend the killing fields that this Government preside over
Johnson's comments trying to blame carers for the excess deaths in care homes is quite frankly disgusting. Look at him, standing there, clapping for them...
I'm pretty sure that if I had voted for him, I would, indeed, be questioning his competence, not defending him
People are frightened, we are being led by liars, the far right ERG
It's hardly surprising that threads can get out hand

Gosh. A one word post 'irony' has been deleted.

Nannying of Gransnet, who'd have thought.

There are lots of gentle and kind threads for more kind and gentle souls to follow and I agree we must all be more sensitive to those going through tough times, but surely politics threads can be a bit rough, we are all big boys and girls and can handle the cut and thrust.

I for one will not be kind and gentle to posters who are racist, to posters who deliberately pick on gentler souls or those who wish sickness and even death to our political leaders whichever side of the debate.

Point taken.

I agree with * Oldwoman*

surfsup, if someone posts a lot, they may seem to own the site. If someone lurks, no-one will get to know them.

You won't find any intimidation on the Good Morning thread or Soop's kitchen. Everyone is welcomed there.

I have only posted a few times but do lurk. There are some members who seem to 'own' this site and I find some of their intimidation and cliquey behaviour rather off-putting.

FarNorth

I've seen someone say, occasionally, that their post was deleted and they don't know why.
A link to GN guidelines is not always enough.
I think it would be useful for GN to say, either in the deleted post or directly to the person, what exactly the reason was.

I have never had a post deleted, btw, so it's not sour grapes from me.

GNHQ were very nice about it, in fact almost apologetic!
Thanks Lara

I haven’t read this before but reading now I’m amazed that posts are being deleted on this thread! Mind boggling.

lemongrove, make that a Contreau and Brandy for me and a large glass of Pinot Grigio for my wife and we will be right over. ??

Marydoll. True it was getting fractious but interestingly from posters from both sides of the politics spectrum (that sounds odd). So honours even !

Setting up a pint of pernod with a cherry in right now for you Grandad ?

Grandad, you would be eaten alive in the Argy! I hope you have your body armour on. Under no circumstances, wear a uniform.

On a more serious note, I despaired when I saw the thread was heading the same way as the type Lara posted about.

lemongrove, I may pop into the Argy Bargy Bar now knowing that. I always have enjoyed a bit of Argy Bargy. ??

That was another joke GN. ?

What I’d like is if posters are asked for clarification of their post they actually reply? Eg. “ABC. Should be banned”
I ask “what do you mean exactly? Why shouldABC be banned ?
Then nothing.

Thanks Glory you should pop into the Argy Bargy Bar for a drink with us, in spite of the name it’s a place of great good humour and happiness.

I no longer post as I’m busy catching up with all the things I should have done weeks ago, but found the political threads quite unpleasant quite often anyway.

I do enjoy your posts and sense of humour Lemongrove!

I also agree with trisher that threads are being deleted to readily.

GillT57

Can I just pop my head over the parapet and say that I don't want Gn to become bland and boring? Anyone who doesn't like the rough and tumble of the political threads is quite at liberty to avoid them! I agree that personal attacks are unnecessary but sometimes it is worth referencing a name in one's reply in order that others can know whose opinion one is agreeing or disagreeing with ( without nastiness of course).

Agree