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FannyCornforth Thu 18-Mar-21 01:53:27

Hello
Are Gransnet and Mumsnet the same 'company', and are posting rules the same?
What follows now is what prompted my to ask.

I had three comments deleted on Tuesday due to them 'breaking talk guidelines', more specifically because they were 'gossip and speculation'. I was told to 'bear this is mind before posting'.
(There is no mention of 'gossip and speculation' in the Talk Guidelines).

I was rather surprised, for reasons which shall become clear, and a teeny bit peeved; but took in on the chin and totally accepted it.

However, it later came to mind that I'd actually learnt said 'gossip and speculation' (which isn't allowed) on Mumsnet.

Furthermore, I learnt this 'gossip and speculation' on a very long running MN thread from 2019, which concerned another senior member of the Windsor's alleged affair.

This morning I searched on MN for the name of this second alleged mistress, and her name appears over eighty times in relation to the Royal Family member.

One of the thread titles in which she appears is '(Insert name here) alleged affair' and another is titled 'Why are the UK press silent about Royal Family Member's alleged affair?'

They are very long running threads and are still available. There are many more threads which discuss the issue.

So, to cut a long story short; are talk guidelines the same on both sites, as it appears that they aren't.
I was under the impression that Gransnet and Mumsnet were one and the same.
Please can you shed some light on this?
Thank you very much!

suziewoozie Fri 19-Mar-21 09:23:25

Who? Please provide link ?
Btw have WA my Ozzie friends about the carrot reference - will report back

JaneJudge Fri 19-Mar-21 09:21:40

Did Elmer Fudd send the PM?

suziewoozie Fri 19-Mar-21 09:19:10

Lucca

suziewoozie

nanna should you really be inciting violence amongst a group of grannies? Think of the grandchildren ????

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Brilliant - where on earth did you find that ?

suziewoozie Fri 19-Mar-21 09:17:57

Doodledog

*Doodledog blimey, that was a bit of a downer. Never mind*
I don’t mind grin. It is what I think - these threads can be rather disingenuous, or can end up that way when people start making veiled references to other threads and ‘other posters’ .

It is, IMO, far more adult to disagree on the original thread, or say why you think something is out of order than to insinuate on threads like this, or make criticisms without backing them up.

What is it about my post that is a ‘downer’? With what do you disagree? No facts or figures needed - but a bit more explanation would be useful to anyone wondering if they are one of ‘those posters’.

Imo ( not a damn fact in sight) we had to be non specific to stop this thread being otherwise ( rightly) deleted. I just about always disagree ( if I do ) on a specific thread as do the posters I see on here ( disclaimer I have not fact checked this). It seems to me this thread has pulled together some issues of general concern, explored and discussed them.Some of us feel we have learned something.

Lucca Fri 19-Mar-21 09:14:58

suziewoozie

nanna should you really be inciting violence amongst a group of grannies? Think of the grandchildren ????

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Lucca Fri 19-Mar-21 09:11:20

Oops sorry

Lucca Fri 19-Mar-21 09:10:40

This

Doodledog Fri 19-Mar-21 09:08:05

Doodledog blimey, that was a bit of a downer. Never mind
I don’t mind grin. It is what I think - these threads can be rather disingenuous, or can end up that way when people start making veiled references to other threads and ‘other posters’ .

It is, IMO, far more adult to disagree on the original thread, or say why you think something is out of order than to insinuate on threads like this, or make criticisms without backing them up.

What is it about my post that is a ‘downer’? With what do you disagree? No facts or figures needed - but a bit more explanation would be useful to anyone wondering if they are one of ‘those posters’.

suziewoozie Fri 19-Mar-21 09:07:17

Kandinsky

Who sent the PM?

This is as good as ‘who shot JR’

Was it Bobby in the shower?

Emily49 Fri 19-Mar-21 09:06:58

I am Spartacus!

Kandinsky Fri 19-Mar-21 09:05:25

Who sent the PM?

This is as good as ‘who shot JR’

Urmstongran Fri 19-Mar-21 09:03:16

Nor me! Not had any about this thread neither.
?
It’s all my own work miss.

LauraNorder Fri 19-Mar-21 09:00:52

PippaZ, to throw in a comment that a poster on this thread sent you an unsolicited pm puts us all under suspicion.
Wasn’t me guv.

suziewoozie Fri 19-Mar-21 08:58:57

nanna should you really be inciting violence amongst a group of grannies? Think of the grandchildren ????

suziewoozie Fri 19-Mar-21 08:56:04

Never mind who reports whom, I demand to know who sent the PM to Pippa ?????

NellG Fri 19-Mar-21 08:47:46

That was a bit of a depth charge PippaZ - it sounds like you suspect something deeply untoward is going on.

Lucca Fri 19-Mar-21 08:47:13

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Galaxy Fri 19-Mar-21 08:47:01

It means the same as many a true word said in jest.

Lucca Fri 19-Mar-21 08:44:22

Why would you not explain the expression ?

Urmstongran Fri 19-Mar-21 08:41:42

Alegrias ???
I could only think it was something to do with carrots & sticks?

Urmstongran Fri 19-Mar-21 08:40:49

I think Nanna8 it’s like I said upthread, posting on here isn’t quite the same as chatting away with friends. That’s free and easy. Body language and laughter helps. Here, not so much.
Emojis help of course but sometimes any nuance is lost.

There’s a balance to strike too between an opinions. with or without evidence? More necessary I think on political discussions, obviously less so on threads about knitting or gardening!

Alegrias1 Fri 19-Mar-21 08:33:05

Well that was a fruitful discussion. Or maybe carrotful ?.

nanna8 Fri 19-Mar-21 08:28:33

I’m not explaining about the carrots if you don’t know, no worries there. Think Aussie bogan. I’m a grannie and proud of it and that is why I am on gransnet. I have had a lifetime of facts and figures and academia and I want something else now. Shoot me.

Lucca Fri 19-Mar-21 08:28:00

Nanna8. So if I post a comment stating that Australia is involved in the illegal importation of carrots from Outer Mongolia that would be fine without me producing any evidence ?

Alegrias1 Fri 19-Mar-21 08:24:29

I'm afraid comments like yours nanna8's about not needing facts are the ones that send me over the edge..... ?