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Please GNHQ ... would you consider letting *EllanVannin* come back to this site?

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Urmstongran Fri 03-Dec-21 15:34:03

This lady of 81y lives alone and GN was a great source of company for her. These long winter days are difficult for many to cope with at the best of times. I learned recently that she was given a lifetime ban. I feel very sad about this.

In the spirit of ? and goodwill to all, would you let her rejoin?

lemongrove Sat 04-Dec-21 20:12:19

??????☕️......cheers! Something for everybody here.
To keep on topic....here’s hoping that EV can return should she want to.

eazybee Sat 04-Dec-21 20:27:57

There are most definitely cliques, one of which was responsible for bans last year, when they ganged up on a poster who offended them.
Some rush into support certain posters who make an enormous fuss if anyone upsets them, others attempt to derail threads they disapprove of, but as to threats and intimidation, I haven't seen any evidence at all of that.

Calistemon Sat 04-Dec-21 20:31:27

Chewbacca

^I hope it’s going to be a happy Christmas decision^ I'll drink to that well, I would if I did! wine

I made a very tasty grape juice, Chewbacca
You're very welcome to a glass or two!

Looks just like red wine but tastes better

Cheers! ?

LauraNorderr Sat 04-Dec-21 20:36:55

I have a bowl of cashew nuts that would go well with the grape juice.
Holding out my empty glass Calistemon please.
Help yourself to nuts everyone.

Calistemon Sat 04-Dec-21 20:42:44

Home-grown organic grape juice

I hope your nuts are organic, LauraNorderr!

LauraNorderr Sat 04-Dec-21 20:44:35

Not sure, but Orlin says his are totally organic, he’s not sharing though!

LauraNorderr Sat 04-Dec-21 20:46:32

Moving swiftly on

I know EV would be up for sharing hot chocolate and crumpets.

rafichagran Sat 04-Dec-21 20:53:28

eazybee

There are most definitely cliques, one of which was responsible for bans last year, when they ganged up on a poster who offended them.
Some rush into support certain posters who make an enormous fuss if anyone upsets them, others attempt to derail threads they disapprove of, but as to threats and intimidation, I haven't seen any evidence at all of that.

Agreed,

Nannagarra Sat 04-Dec-21 20:53:29

Raising a glass ? to EV’s return in time for the season of charity and good will to all. As Ellen doesn’t drink alcohol, she’ll no doubt enjoy the grape juice, Calistemon.
?for her reinstatement.

Calistemon Sat 04-Dec-21 20:57:59

As Ellen doesn’t drink alcohol, she’ll no doubt enjoy the grape juice

I didn't know that but there is more in the freezer ready and waiting!

Nannagarra Sat 04-Dec-21 21:19:52

Glad to hear that, Calistemon. She'll be ensuring old Tom is well fed and warm, and no doubt leaving open her bedroom window for her cats on this windy night.

marymary62 Sat 04-Dec-21 21:21:10

Well I don’t know EV but surely a lifetime ban on gransnet is a ridiculous notion even if she did do something outrageous .....

Oopsadaisy1 Sat 04-Dec-21 21:41:26

GN HQ replied to me saying that they would discuss their decision (about EV) in the office over the next few days.

I reported my own post to them.

Fingers crossed

Urmstongran Sat 04-Dec-21 21:47:34

Thanks for your feedback Oops it’s good to know the mods are reading and considering. I do hope next week brings good news.

Chewbacca Sat 04-Dec-21 22:02:04

Thanks for the update **Oops

Nannagarra Sat 04-Dec-21 22:44:00

I’m also grateful for your update Oops. ?

Rosalyn69 Sun 05-Dec-21 06:53:07

I don’t know this EV lady but it seems strange that someone so universally popular managed to get banned.
I’ve been banned from another website in the distant past because certain posters engineered it but to honest, it wasn’t the end of the world and I moved on. I hope this lady has done just that. Life’s too short to worry about being banned from a website.

M0nica Sun 05-Dec-21 07:29:01

There are most definitely cliques, one of which was responsible for bans last year, when they ganged up on a poster who offended them. Some rush into support certain posters who make an enormous fuss if anyone upsets them, others attempt to derail threads they disapprove of.

Are there? There has occasional been general disapproval when someone writes something that is racist or cruel, or otherwise breaks the limits of acceptability and the political threads have a group who share political views and who I would describe as boring rather than a ganging up on those that oppose them.

BlueBelle Sun 05-Dec-21 08:06:14

I got a thanks for reporting but no “we will think about it message” !!!

I am simply shouting for the ridiculous ‘life time’ ban to be removed they have been rescinded for others so why not for this lady I don’t know anything about anything she said, but according to most posts on here, which I have read everyone seems puzzled by what ‘crime’ she has committed

Treat us as adults GN not naughty children I m sure EV hasn’t killed, maimed or derailed anyone she might at worst have offended someone so what! aren’t we big enough and old enough to handle our own affairs, if you really feel the need to intervene do it publicly so we all know what’s acceptable in your eyes and what’s not
That generic “you have broken guidelines” tells us NOTHING it’s flimsy and open to interpretant what offends you, may not offend me etc etc if it’s very bad, call the poster out by saying what is bad
Even a child never learns from punishment unless they and the rest of the class know what they are being punished for

Oopsadaisy1 Sun 05-Dec-21 08:26:33

The reply I received, others must also have had this as it refers to a mass email

TillyTrotter Sun 05-Dec-21 08:32:03

I don’t have an idea of what has happened when EllanV was given the harshest of punishments,
but adding my voice to the army of grans who are pleading with GNHQ ………. “Please re-instate her membership”.

Beechnut Sun 05-Dec-21 08:40:19

Oopsadaisy1

The reply I received, others must also have had this as it refers to a mass email

?and legs ?

Daisymae Sun 05-Dec-21 08:44:35

Why doesn't she just re-register with a new name and email?

BlueBelle Sun 05-Dec-21 09:07:46

Daisy I think they have ways and means
I didn’t get that mass email even though I reported my own post oops

Greyduster Sun 05-Dec-21 09:47:07

I only ever came across EV on the GM thread but enjoyed reading her posts. I can’t imagine what she could have said or done that resulted in such a draconian response, but I would like to add my voice to the plea to let her come back. C’mon GNHQ; have a heart!