Bear with me, just testing

A lot of hectoring here!

Hellogirl is a great-grandmother and been on GN for many years - I'm sure she fully understands the situation.

No-one is hectoring, nor being unkind at all, just offering good and sensible advice. It is being done with good intentions.
I don't see any unkindness and am well aware that Hellogirl has been on here far longer than me.
This issue has been raised a number of times in the past.

There is a certain lovely lady who regularly posts pics of her grandchildren and great grandchildren, she never gets criticized. The baby`s family DON`T mind, by the way.

Hellogirl well it’s totally up to you it was kind advice given by a few, no one was unkind, or said anything unkind but we all make our own choices