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Gransnetters share the legacy they'd like to leave when they're gone with Cancer Research UK

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LucyBGransnet (GNHQ) Mon 20-Jan-20 10:31:36

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As we get older, we often think about what our legacy will be; what memories, relationships or objects we leave behind to reflect how we’d like to be remembered. Making a Will is a way to communicate those wishes and the things that are important to someone are often reflected by the things they include. Cancer Research UK would love to hear what matters to you when you think about your legacy.

Here’s what Cancer Research UK has to say: “We know that when writing a Will, your friends and family should always come first. Once they’re taken care of, if you have even just a small gift leftover to leave for Cancer Research UK, this will still make a huge difference. We know from meeting our wonderful supporters that people have left us a gift in their Will because they are passionate about helping to beat cancer and want to continue when they are gone.”

What have you thought about leaving behind? Have you detailed this in a Will? Would you consider leaving a gift to charity in your Will? Would Cancer Research UK be a consideration? How would you like people to remember you when you’re gone?

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Grannyknot Wed 29-Jan-20 15:51:04

We haven't specified any charities in our wills.

We give to a cancer charity now, also to one supporting the blind, to the RNLI and a local children's hospice.

I'd like to be remembered. How is up to the people who knew me!

Tsuyoiko Wed 29-Jan-20 16:44:40

I've already put charitable legacies in my will, with the entire estate going to charity if my family pre-deceases me. I actually need to change the charities now as it's many years since I chose them and my priorities have changed since then!

lilmax0182 Wed 29-Jan-20 18:23:26

I don't know what the future holds for me and my family; at the moment my money situation isn't great but don't know what it will be like when my children are older. I would like to think that was is remembered once I do pass is how much I loved each of my children, that they are successful and rich in happiness when they are older. I hope they all talk to each other and are close with one another.

If I had come in to money it will most likely be left to my three children split equally. I can't say if I would leave to a charity, my views and opinions may change later on in life.

I don't have a will made at this time in my life.

Rudegal Wed 29-Jan-20 21:50:31

I haven’t actually thought about this subject until now... I really don’t know at this stage in my life but I’d give everything I had for my children to thrive in life when I’m in heaven

alem2018 Wed 29-Jan-20 22:25:37

I hope not to have a legacy.

Carado Thu 30-Jan-20 01:27:47

I hope my legacy will be in the memories of those who knew me. I have made a Will, leaving what I have to my stepson as I have no children of my own. I didn't include a charity, though I will consider this now, as he is older and well established. Probably an animal charity, as Cats have been my best companions in life.

Overthehill5 Thu 30-Jan-20 06:00:50

I donate to charities during the year as well as sponsoring people on various charity events, so I won’t leave a large amount to charity as a legacy, my family will need their inheritance.

aimeesmum Thu 30-Jan-20 11:09:26

hi will leave it to my daughter

Bonsela3 Thu 30-Jan-20 11:46:07

I have made a simple will ,but need to update it ,I don’t have a great deal of money ,but to leave a little to Cancer research would be my choice ,as so many new drugs have been used to treat cancers and I admire their work ,we all have or know someone dear to us who have had this disease.
I am a lady on my own ,being adopted I didn’t know the family’s medical history

Pebblebeach8 Thu 30-Jan-20 12:10:04

I have left what I have to family. I tend to support charities at the moment and have never thought to leave a legacy to them.

cheekychicken24 Thu 30-Jan-20 17:14:08

Our children are both better off than we are now! Assuming we don't lose the house due to care costs etc, then our will splits our estate 50/50 between the kids and an animal charity which is close to our hearts. I suppose that any grandchildren in the future might change this & we'd update accordingly.

Yolostela Thu 30-Jan-20 17:47:15

My legacy will be bringing our children up to be kind and good mannered.

zoeypma Thu 30-Jan-20 20:14:39

We have yet to right a will, but it's something that we have on our to do list. Sadly we havnt any children of our own due to infertility issues, hoping we are luck enough this year through ivf but previous history doesn't look great.

If we don't have children of our own, we would leave what we have to 1 neice and 2 nephews eldest being 14 at present.

We would consider leaving a donation to charity related to cancer , as hubby lost his mum 40yrs ago when he was 10. Also lost my gran to cancer bit she had a good innings at 92.

Susiewusie100 Thu 30-Jan-20 21:59:08

I give to charity most months my will is to be left to my children in the hope that they too give to charity

muffin Thu 30-Jan-20 22:20:28

No will, and nothing to leave anyone

Jill2Gillian Fri 31-Jan-20 05:44:15

We have made a will, we have one child and we want to be sure that she is financially secure when we are gone, we have also factored in charity donations.

Julie1977 Fri 31-Jan-20 06:29:12

I've made a will but it was years ago. No charities listed in it then but I should really update it and would consider now.

popikaoana1 Fri 31-Jan-20 08:36:41

I would like for everyone to remember me for my kindness and hard work

shaddai88 Fri 31-Jan-20 10:53:47

I would like to leave a legacy of one who has integrity and a pssion to win souls for the Kingdom of God.

I support Charities and Christian organisation with a vsion to help bring the word of God to others.

Daisymae Fri 31-Jan-20 11:51:22

I am disillusioned big charities, their generous salary and pension packages so I will not be leaving anything. I support the work of small hands on organisations who do work that I admire.

bdavies Fri 31-Jan-20 11:57:06

Everything will go to my 3 children. Though I have to say that I am annoyed at the way some TV advertising is trying to force older people to take equity out of the homes that they live in to pass on to children or grandchildren. I think current older generation have donated quite enough money to children and grandchildren over the years without being bombarded with adverts like this. It makes my blood boil!

SUZY156 Fri 31-Jan-20 13:34:58

I have supported charities through donations taken out of my bank on a monthly basis.It felt good to do this and would consider leaving money to a charity in my will, but which to choose I am not sure. The ones which come to mind are cancer charities as we need to do more research and they need money to do this.

dcavender123 Fri 31-Jan-20 14:12:48

I'm leaving everything to my family members to help them along. I would love to donate something to charity but am not in a position to do so at the moment.

Katyl Fri 31-Jan-20 16:38:53

I would like to think my legacy would be my family having some great memories of me.
I don’t have anything of really fiscal value to leave.

cazzar1 Fri 31-Jan-20 17:40:03

I have two daughters who both have severe health problems. This means they are very limited in what work they can do and how much money they can earn. This impacts their life now and then will again later when it comes to claiming their pension. Therefore, I am leaving all my money to them. As they say, charity begins at home and they will need as much as we can leave for them.