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Gransnetters share what lockdown has made them feel grateful for with McCarthy & Stone

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YanaGransnet (GNHQ) Wed 01-Jul-20 17:46:35

The last few months have put us all to test - from learning how to create a tasty meal with only what we have in the fridge, to finding new ways to stay connected with our loved ones while apart. But these challenging times made us appreciate more the little things in life such as a stranger’s kindness or your neighbour’s cake.
With that in mind, McCarthy & Stone would like to find out more about what lockdown has made you feel grateful for and who would you like to say a ‘Thank you’ to.

Here’s what they have to say: “A McCarthy & Stone apartment gives you much more than a lovely home. It gives you access to a vibrant, caring and supportive community of friends and neighbours. And as recent events have shown, nothing is more important.

We couldn’t be prouder of the way our homeowners have stepped up to support each other during this challenging period. The already strong community spirit has flourished. Despite the restrictions, we’ve seen our homeowners adapt to new ways of socialising, with everything from exercise classes to gin nights — as well as innovative ways to celebrate things like anniversaries, birthdays and VE day.

Meanwhile 400 of our staff volunteered to help with shopping and other essentials in our Buddy scheme. And nationally, we’ve entertained homeowners with free virtual talks; a school penpal programme; exercise ideas from the Gym Group, a poetry competition and more. As a result we’ve been inundated with moving messages of thanks.”

So we are asking you, what are the little things that made lockdown more bearable for you and your family? What are you most looking forward to after lockdown is lifted? What are the new things you’ve learnt about yourself and others? How have you kept positive and what role does your circle of family and friends play in it? If you need to call out one thing or person that you are especially thankful for during lockdown, what or who would that be?

Whatever you feel grateful for or just want to say a ‘Thank you’ to something or someone who’s made lockdown more bearable for you, share your stories on the thread below. All GN users who post sharing their experience will be entered into a prize draw where one GNer will win a £200 voucher for a store of their choice (from a list).

Thanks and good luck!
GNHQ

fialcross Tue 14-Jul-20 11:45:04

I am grateful for the chance it gave me to recover from a fractured skull and a bleed on the brain. Though I had gone back to work, I was not coping well as I was constantly tired and couldn’t remember jobs I had been doing daily for 12 years. We had to cut staff hours and, though I wanted to work, I volunteered for redundancy. I was very sad when I was made redundant, especially as it was immediately before lockdown. However, I am now so glad it happened as I have had the time to recover. I am no longer exhausted though my memory may never be as good as before!

cass123 Tue 14-Jul-20 12:11:37

My Daughter lives in London and had a new baby in Nov 19. She came down to stay just before Lockdown with Husband as they were on Maternity and Paternity Leave. Our little family has been here ever since.
All the weeks during lockdown we have had time to get to know our little Grandson, watch him grow and learn to do new things. Suddenly our days have been full of fun, happiness, laughter and joy.
We live in quite a rural area and I am proud to say my SIL and Daughter have been out and about helping other oldies who could not get out to do their shopping.
I am so grateful for my lovely little family and the chance to spend this time together and for all the fun we have had.
I am now wondering if when lockdown finally ends if we should move to be closer to our family as we will really miss them when they all go back to London.

Taylor46id Tue 14-Jul-20 12:51:58

I have realised how important your family is to you I think we all take things for granted some times and lockdown has certainly made me think how important family is, I have also thought a great deal about the people with small businesses that have struggled to survive in this difficult time and the families that have gone without. It’s certainly opened my eyes to what has happened and what could happen in the future, my heart goes out to all the people who have lost loved ones ☹️? and lastly really concerned about the nhs workers struggling to save people and the conditions they are working in.

SallyAnn6603 Tue 14-Jul-20 13:00:52

I am grateful that I was able to spend quality time with my family. My sons are fleeing the nest this year, so this was fantastic quality time with them.

Leefitz68 Tue 14-Jul-20 13:00:58

Above all else it's obviously family

tomskype Tue 14-Jul-20 13:32:18

Being able to look after my parents just by doing the shopping and spending more time with my family.

MarciaB Tue 14-Jul-20 13:40:19

I am grateful to be alive. I am also grateful that I was taught always to keep a good pantry! Even when we couldn't get a delivery slot there was always something in the cupboard that allowed me to rustle up a good meal.

Coach Tue 14-Jul-20 13:53:23

i feel very grateful for the grandchildren they reminded me there was so much to live for and made me count my blessings

marmar01 Tue 14-Jul-20 14:26:12

i am very grateful to my dog getting out for walks with him and enjoying the birdsong while in lock down. Grateful for life just slowing down that little bit. Also i am very grateful to my Granddaughter (9) phoning me every night to read a chapter of the latest book

Gig1 Tue 14-Jul-20 14:52:02

The regular calls from family and friends, my health, the ability to walk in the quiet countryside near where I live and enjoy the birds and flowers, something which I’ve previously been too busy to enjoy, walking in different areas of the town I’ve lived in over 30 years and finding gems - bushes, flowers, beautiful houses, and other people’s dogs - although have restrained myself from giving them a fuss for fear of virus transmission.

Kittycat Tue 14-Jul-20 15:05:03

I am so grateful to all the Support Workers (Carers) where my 25 years old son has his own little flat in a Residential Care Home. He has Aspergers Syndrome and severe OCD about germs everywhere and washing his hands with tons of soap! We usually see him every week either at his flat or home to us for Sunday dinner. With my Husband who is 73 having to ‘Shield’ we were unable to go to see him. Plus our son told us we were to stay away to stay safe as he doesn’t want us to get ill. Obviously being his Mum I was so scared for him and upset that it was something I couldn’t keep him safe from.His carers promised they would take care of him for us. They came to our house every third week to collect little pots of ready cooked mince that I do for him (Essential trip for food)and anything else he hadn’t been able to get from Tesco online shopping-I always try to keep a stock of things he uses such as Anti bac wipes, dettol spray etc. And sometimes treats ie sweets or biscuits for the staff. I booked his shopping for him as best I could with everyone else doing online shopping. It wasn’t always easy as he usually has the same day and time every week but they made sure there was always a career to help with it no matter ŵhat time it arrived. Normally every item has to be wiped before it can come into his flat so they had to do it extra thoroughly. As he couldn’t go out on his long walks they sat with in his flat during his 1 to 1 hours and helped to keep him cheerful. We were so afraid he would go back to his constant hand washing as a result of the “Wash your hands”campaign but thankfully he didn’t. I could go on and on about how much they have taken care of him and helped him since he moved there just over four years ago. I can’t thank them enough for all they have done for him through this difficult time. We couldn’t have managed without them. They don’t get enough thank yous or enough pay for the things they have to do sometimes. Thank you.❣️

nicolajones63 Tue 14-Jul-20 15:27:20

I feel so grateful to have all my family throughout lockdown and am one of the lucky people to say i havent had anyone affected by the virus. I am also grateful for how it has brought us together as a family as we talk more now

knutsfordgeorge Tue 14-Jul-20 15:27:48

I'm very grateful for the postman and all the delivery drivers who have carried on delivering much needed letters and goodies to keep a little bit of normality going across the country.

startrek32 Tue 14-Jul-20 15:45:26

I am grateful to my son,Nick and son-in-law Adrian for helping out with shopping,keeping me in the loop and in good spirits.I am also grateful that none of my family,friends and neighbours have fallen sick with this dreadful virus.

bluegruber Tue 14-Jul-20 15:54:10

I am very grateful for my health and my home, something I think we all take for granted at times but seeing the awful news recently has made me more aware of just how lucky I am!
I also value the additional time spent with my son.

Mich Tue 14-Jul-20 16:25:07

I am very grateful for my health. My late mum used to say “if you’ve got your health and strength then you have everything” and it is very true. So many people have lost their lives to this pandemic And it is not over yet, so I am very grateful for every day! I live on my own and haven’t seen my daughter since early November, she hopes to visit as soon as it is safe to do so, so my standard poodle Bentley has been a godsend!

jacpri Tue 14-Jul-20 18:27:11

I've been so grateful for fresh air and exercise. I would have found it very difficult to cope without this.

WoodLane7 Tue 14-Jul-20 18:37:19

I have felt grateful to live in an area where there is lots of nature and beautiful walks; always something new to explore and see

Jadzi Tue 14-Jul-20 18:46:01

I am grateful to all my friends who ring me up to see how I am and to have a chat

mgnchungles53 Tue 14-Jul-20 19:00:18

I have used lockdown to tidy my home, decluttering all the 28 years of hoarding ! We have even tinkered with a greenhouse, but as yet, I’ve murdered all the seeds I’ve planted!
It has been nice to meet relatives and friends over virtual, platforms like Zoom, particularly my U3A friends!
Been lovely watching my garden birds enjoying their bird balls as well the quiet time in the garden, watching nature!

Jellybeetles Tue 14-Jul-20 19:12:21

I have loved being able at home to start & finish work early with no travel to work and back so more home life to enjoy. I never go for walks but have done no end of walks up and down our local river. And then over the several months have watched all the wildlife bringing new life into the world. Amazing.

Yearoff Tue 14-Jul-20 19:44:29

Most definitely I’m grateful for having my family so close by. I spent a lot of time with them before lockdown but I realised how much I depended on them after my partner died in December. I’m so grateful to have a loving family.

Isobelw Tue 14-Jul-20 19:46:49

Family and friends

Pallett Tue 14-Jul-20 19:56:59

I am grateful for my friends and family and the support of my wonderful husband, without him I would be lost.

alibee Tue 14-Jul-20 20:05:41

Very grateful for health , family , no one I know caught COVID, daily walks and discovering lovely areas where I live, spending time with my lovely husband