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Shopping for bras

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Littlegranny2 Wed 03-Aug-11 21:36:29

At the grand old age of 65 my darling husband (of 41 years) decided to treat me to some posh bras instead of the usual M&S jobs. So our first port of call was to Rigby and Peller. What a complete disaster! They tried to force me into a size 32 which I haven't been for the last 35 years, and I felt that I was being fitted by the Gestapo. The next day I returned the whole lot, as a protest to their dubious standards, and went down the road to La Perla to see what they would offer. This time they insisted that I was an E size ( which I have never been) and i returned those two bras today as they were too big an hour after wearing one of them. As they had no other bras in the shop to fit me they refunded my husband's money which is against their normal policy and we went back to M&S where we foUnd plenty of brass to choose from. Almost forgot to saythat La Perla tried to sell me a Much Used and clearly dirty bra, for £69! Rigby and Peller was noisy with much larking about by the staff that they hardly noticed that we had walked into the shop. Marks in contrast was helpful and reliable. So my advice is don't be tempted to go up Market, save your money and go to Marks. On the other hand, I wonder if anyone can recommend another good bra company.

shysal Mon 11-Jun-12 16:43:22

I agree Maniac, far too flimsy!

Maniac Mon 11-Jun-12 15:19:23

The Belvia bras now being advertised on TV are similar to Aah bras and just as useless.Available at Boots,etc. I tried 2 sizes.got a refund. They are comfy but don't give much support.

shysal Mon 11-Jun-12 09:56:54

I am most comfortable in underwired bras and it is difficult to find them with strong enough straps since I have put on weight, now wearing a 40c. I have found the ideal bra at 'Our Secrets Beneath' it is Clara by Anita, available underwired or non-wired. Their customer service has been superb so I shall use them again.
www.oursecretsbeneath.com/index.php?route=common/home

yogagran Sun 10-Jun-12 21:05:48

AlieOxon - I, too, am very lopsided after breast cancer surgery and Rigby & Peller were incredibly helpful. I am now much more confident in wearing tighter tops. I went to their Knightsbridge shop and now make a regular pilgrimage! Although they may seem much more expensive to buy a bra from them, they do last really well, fit perfectly and the service you get is superb. I wish I had done it earlier

AlieOxon Sun 10-Jun-12 08:46:41

A problem for me - lopsided from the breast op and cannot find the right size!

flowerfriend Sun 10-Jun-12 08:19:03

Yes - Bravissimo are still the best for us ladies with big boobs. Big boobs and M and S just don't work. My DiL similarly proportioned agrees and says you have to spend money on good scaffolding. Even though I have to be careful with my money I so agree.

nanaej Sat 09-Jun-12 22:07:24

Agree anagram

Anagram Sat 09-Jun-12 21:05:41

M&S bras used to be great, but their 'firm support' ones aren't any more - too stretchy and/or see-through for me.

nanaej Sat 09-Jun-12 21:01:04

Bravissimo for me. M&S Per Una bras are better for me than their other ranges but only last 6 months so I try to get to Bravissiomo for an annual visit who also fit by look not tape measure. I have always had a positive experience there. (Covent Garden branch)

kinjil Sat 09-Jun-12 13:27:55

Since I achieved 'maturity' I have spent ££££s on bras but they were never comfortable. Went to R&P in Kensington and have been very satisfied with the results. I also had been buying the wrong size. They have lasted for years (not handwashed but done in the machine) and as I have sloping shoulders they can provide a separate piece to help keep the straps up. Have tried others inbetween but have had to hand them over to friends! Looking forward to going back some time when my ship comes in (again!)smile smile

Faye Thu 17-Nov-11 12:25:52

I recently bought an Ambra bra (like the ahh bra), just to try them as I hate wearing bras. It was too small so I returned it and went up a size. They are really comfortable and I can wear them for hours but I found they are not supportive enough to run in. When recently visiting my daughter in hospital my grandson would ask me to run up the ramp with him. I find it an effort to run but one time I beat my fast, nimble, nearly four year old grandson and when I said 'I won,' smile the look on his face, he never thought I could beat him.

supernana Thu 17-Nov-11 11:27:31

Ariadne and numberplease smile grin wink...Oh, the bliss of removing the bra and the wearing of a pretty, comfy, flannel nightie at the end of the day...Magic!

Annobel Wed 16-Nov-11 18:01:00

I don't recall seeing a bra on the washing line in either of my grannies' gardens. But when my paternal granny came to stay, my mother was very embarrassed to have Granny's combinations on the line in case any of the neighbours thought they belonged to her!

numberplease Wed 16-Nov-11 17:48:46

As long as nobody`s there to notice! My grandma never wore one in her life, as she proudly told me several times, conveniently ignoring the fact that her boobs were below her waistline!

Ariadne Wed 16-Nov-11 17:33:06

Nothing like it! But isn't it nice, whatever the make, to take the ** things off?

supernana Wed 16-Nov-11 17:07:00

numberplease Isn't it bliss to wear a bra that fits...

numberplease Wed 16-Nov-11 16:51:03

Reading all these posts I must be a real cheap skate! I get my bras from Bonmarche, costing between £6 and £8, and they fit just fine. For years I bought from catalogues, and always got the size I thought I was, 38D, then one day I measured myself according to the instructions at the back of my daughter`s catalogue, and found that I was a 42C. So that`s why I bulged over the top, I`d often wondered!

glammanana Sat 12-Nov-11 15:51:07

One of my DS1s friends does the German market at Christmas,he live's permentely in Spain in the summer months and does the CHristmas Markets with his family during the winter,he used to love the Hollands pie's I used to get from the English supplier and English bacon,I could not compete on the sausage's though !!! He was the only German who came into our restaurant who understood English humour.

Annobel Sat 12-Nov-11 12:10:03

Thanks, glamma, I see that they also have a shop in Manchester, so, when I go to look at the German Christmas market, I will pop in there and see if they can oblige.

glammanana Sat 12-Nov-11 11:51:32

annobel have you tried Bravissimo you may find one there.They have a shop at the bottom of Bold Street in Liverpool and have lovely helpful staff.

Annobel Fri 11-Nov-11 16:17:36

I would love to find a front-fastening bra because I am again having trouble fastening it round the back and it's quite a job to wrestle it round when I've fastened it at the front. Any suggestions?

Snowdrop Fri 11-Nov-11 15:41:20

I'm another convert to Rigby and Peller. I went in wearing a 36C and came out a little while later size 32E! They are expensive but, to my mind, well worth it. The difference a properly fitting bra makes not only to the way you feel, but also to the way clothes fit, is immeasurable (in R&P's case, literally!). I shall go back 6 monthly for a check and buy from them when I can afford it. They also had a scheme whereby you get a discount of £10 on each bra you buy if you donate your old bras - and they in their turn donate to breast cancer research which seemed a good scheme to me.
I have tried the M&S bra fitting service in the past but found it to be nowhere near as good as R&P. I understand from friends that Bravissimo is also extremely good.

HildaW Sun 04-Sept-11 10:23:22

GoldenGran. Have you tried Bravissimo?

GoldenGran Sat 03-Sept-11 12:42:21

OTHill, do figleaves cater for larger sizes. Am size 12/14 but am 34ff in bra size, and I can get them, I wear Fantasie, but I want something pretty sometimes.

OTHill Sat 03-Sept-11 12:01:17

Buying bras on-line gives you the opportunity to try them on at home, in "your own space", I have used www.figleaves.com/uk for many years and have only had to send something back on one occasion. Go on, give them a try.