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Should I home-colour?

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NotTooOld Fri 02-Oct-15 22:08:56

I'm so fed up spending hours (and pounds) at the hairdresser having my mostly grey hair coloured. I have a base colour and highlights and need to have the roots done every six weeks or so, with the highlights touched up on every other visit. It is costly but mostly it is the time it takes that I resent. Now I'm thinking of just putting on a colour at home but am worried about the mess in the bathroom. Any suggestions/tips, please?

Sugarpufffairy Sun 11-Oct-15 09:43:23

I have used N & E for many years. I was only 22 when the grey started. Just now I am resisting the urge to colour my hair as it seems as if grey hair is the in thing.
I think I am hair dresser phobic. I have not been for over 3 years so my hair is very long. I am trying to get the courage to have my hair cut.
There is a product which can remove previous dyes from hair. Has anyone ever used that and was it successful?
Thank you.

hamster111 Sun 11-Oct-15 10:10:04

I agree with Alea, although my husband is a hairdresser, I decided to go au naturel 5 years ago because , although it was free, I was having my hair dyed every 3 weeks , and I found there is more to life than sitting in a chair waiting for dye to take. Every one comments on how nice my hair is, and they wish they were that brave. It isn't brave to accept your age and have a trendy haircut and wear nice clothes , and lots of jewellery . If you do carry on colouring your own hair, please make sure you look at the back , as there is nothing worse than patches of grey showing through. Also do not be tempted to dye it the same colour you had when you were younger, as your skin tone will have changed over the years, and a dark colour will make you look paler. Lastly , why not go to your local hairdressing college where you will be a model, either free or very reasonable prices.

Victoria08 Sun 11-Oct-15 10:21:56

I am now 70 years old and still home dying my hair black.

I am tempted to grow it out but always give in as my daughter comments on grey showing through.

Does anyone else have black hair. I have always had that colour and it's difficult trying a lighter shade as they don't take.

I realise that black can be a bit harsh at my age but I really don't know what to do.

Any others with the same dilemma, please reply.

Another problem is my hair is getting thinner with age.

Katek Sun 11-Oct-15 10:27:20

Have you thought of looking for a mobile hairdresser to come to you SPF? You will probably feel less anxious if you're in the security of your own home.

MountainAsh Sun 11-Oct-15 11:42:45

I have home dyed my hair for longer than I can remember. My hair is so grey, silver and white, that a "block colour" looks as if I have had highlights.
I was super ecstatic last week, to find my favourite colour in the the clearance section of Tesco. £1.75 a box, I bought the last 5.

I wear an old baggy tshirt and old paint splattered leggings, as our bathroom is all tiles, any drips or splashes are easily wiped away. Jumping into the shower to rinse away the colour is my method too.

Skullduggery Sun 11-Oct-15 13:02:32

Just to point out that the supposed tonal shade box dyes are not actually 3 shades but because your own natural hair isn't one flat colour, it's formulated so that it gives the effect of multi/translucent tones rather than a solid wig effect.

Also, Colour Touch is a Demi permanent not semi permanent as it needs to be mixed with a peroxide based developer. A true semi is not mixed with peroxide and sits on the outside of your cuticle layer.

As a PP mentioned, you could consider visiting your local hairdressing college or Salon that runs training sessions. The charges are very reasonable and the students are supervised. If you can attend a level 3 advanced group, they will have already obtained their basic hairdressing qualification.

@Victoria08 one solution would be to find a training college who are running colour correction courses to remove your black hair dye. Let them help you find a better solution that isn't quite so ageing.

My sister is 70 and goes to a very trendy salon in Chesterfield that is owned by the current British Hairdresser of the Year - Mark Leeson.
She was a teacher before retiring and never bothered much about her hair or fashion but she looks fabulous now. It's never too late!

Grannyjacq1 Sun 11-Oct-15 14:36:02

I'm also a fan of Clairol Nice and Easy. Have been using it for some time now and have got it down to a fine art - without too much mess. Old Tshirt and towel are helpful. I tend to use a lighter shade (med. champagne blonde) on my light brown/mousy hair and have to re-do it once a month - sometimes leaving it for a bit longer in winter. It's usually on offer at supermarkets - 2 for £10 - so much cheaper than the hairdressers.
If you still like the idea of going to the hairdressers, have you tried the local college? Much cheaper - and well supervised, so shouldn't be a problem. Many local colleges have hairdressing/beauty departments - open in term time only.

mrsmopp Sun 11-Oct-15 16:23:31

I use nice and easy every time and really like it. Watch the timing because if you leave it on too long the colour will be darker but you get used to it and will learn how long to leave it on and which colour suits you best.
I do mine when the roots show through and I go to the hairdresser every 2 months for a dry cut for £14.50 and it takes about 15 to 20 minutes.
I dont even want to pay them to wash my hair as I can wash my own hair perfectly well. My hair curls naturally so I dont need to sit there while the stylist takes an hour faffing around with the dryer, mousse, tongs and spray etc. i run my fingers through it and I'm out the door.
Good luck!

mumofmadboys Sun 11-Oct-15 16:52:45

I have never coloured my hair mainly because I have always hated seeing different colours at the roots of others hair. It really put me off. I am now 58 and my hair is quite grey. I was auburn and never appreciated how nice it was until it was gone!!

hamster111 Sun 11-Oct-15 17:33:34

Victoria 08 you can call L'Oreal Paris Uk at 0800 0304 031 , they are based in Hammersmith and will give advice about colouring, and I believe you can attend their school for a hairdo free.

Magicmaggie Mon 12-Oct-15 08:10:11

I used to have dark brown hair and when it started showing the grey dyed it using red henna which gave it great highlights.
Now i'm greyer I home dye using John Frieda Precision Foam Colour in Light Golden Brown, this covers the grey patches.
I 've also started using Nutress Multi-Lights Kit to add highlights and break up the block colour.
I would love to go grey but hate that badger growing out look and don't want to have to wear hats going out or cut my hair very short for the next six months.

schnackie Mon 12-Oct-15 12:32:08

I have been following this thread with interest. I always went to salons to get my hair highlighted, but when I lost my job, age 58, I decided to bite the bullet and tried home colour. I was happy enough with it, but was not crazy about the one-all-over colour, so would get highlights done ever couple of years.
So I was excited about the Nice'n Easy 3 tonal colour suggested by gillybob with further recommendations from others. So I went to Savers (thanks Glammanana) and bought a box which I plan to use today.
But HEY HO - has anyone noticed that in small print, on the back of the box, it clearly states "On grey hair, colour is NOT recommended for use". And then when you open the directions inside it describes applying colour to "stubborn greys", several times!!
I'm going to use it anyway, but perhaps I will write to the company and ask for clarification.
And thanks TerriBull for the comments about Colour Wow. I have seen ads for this and have been tempted. I will give it a try for roots in future.

lulu321 Mon 12-Oct-15 16:41:06

I use nice n easy and it is what is says, multi toned and it covers grey, been using it for years.