Some people have it, others don't

Yes,you've either got it or you haven't,It's not something money can buy,a lot of celebs don't have it.Judy Dench Definatly got it,it comes from within.Apparently( so I'm often told) I have it.

It is my aim to look like Judi Dench! it does come from within, I'm sure, it's about being comfortable in one's own skin. I could wear Judi Dench's clothes and look like a bag lady.

I definately don't have it !!!

I don`t have it , I never really `dress up` and tend to wear the same sort of things , casual but pretty clothes often floaty type tops with tapered trousers or harem pants and flat shoes . Always wear make up though , it makes me feel so much better .
I always wonder what I would look like if I had a make over with money no object , it would be fun but not sure I would be comfortable !
I think I am just an old hippy really

All my life I have been trying to find my style. Unfortunately I have failed miserably. I still wear the same type of clothes that I wore in my 30's. I seriously need some help!

hilda I think most of us do . I read an article once which said that you stay in the style you were wearing when you first fell in love !!! It certainly applies to me ...

I'm glad it doesn't apply to me - I'd still be wearing loons and cheesecloth smocks!

I'd be wearing near-mini dresses and they would not look great with my legs as they are now - fifty years later!

And what, pray tell, is wrong with loons? I had a pair soooo wide if I walked fast enough my ankles would get tied together.
You either have it or you don't. I never have.

Come to think of it, back in the '60s, I loved empire line dresses and made several for myself. My wedding dress and the bridesmaid dresses my mum and I made for my sister's wedding were all empire. As I had a waistline in those days, I had nothing to hide!

I have always wanted to go down the scarves route. Some women look amazing in them. Why are they so big? The ones I come across in the shops are big enough to move into. What is the secret of wearing a scarf without it looking very odd?

IT,is not so much what your wearing,as how your wearing it. IT,is something from within that shows on the outside.IT is more about being able to carry it off,and knowing how to wear it.Two people could wear exactly the same thing etc.
Some celebs on the red carpet can spend thousands on their outfit and look awful,another can be wearing the simplest,and look fabulous.

Oh I have never had it no matter how much I spend and as for sca4ves I all but gartte myself every time I waer one. P S Judy Dench has a stylist and she can look quite dumpy and plain

Some people have it, others don't
A bit like dandruff ?
(CBA if I don't)

"you stay in the style you were wearing when you first fell in love"

Circular skirts and scratchy stiffened net petticoats? I don't think so!

I've never had it, always wanted it but never achieved it.

I couldn't find it.

Never had it. I do have a couple of friends who I always thought would even look good in a bin bag.

I think it helps if you have a small bust. Don't think I can ever look sleek with big boobs.

Well as I said Lully Jenni Murray regularly wears black bin bags. She has money, a friendly face, is super intelligent. I know she is quite big, or was, but that is no reason to dress so terribly. On the other hand she may like what she wears.

I wonder what she would say about the pjs I am wearing at present which are grey covered in coloured spots with a short sleeved top with sparkly flowers on the front.

Just watching Helen Mirren on the Queen's 90th birthday thingy.

Love her new hairstyle.

"you stay in the style you were wearing when you first fell in love"
Do they mean the first time you fell in love ie when you were 15 with that gorgeous boy from the grammar school, or do they mean your DH?

My friend is the spitting image of Judy Dench and dresses with real style. I am .

I think I am too for a gym slip . Anyway what ever it is - I don't want to have it

I think I had it once without properly realising I had it, but I definitely lost it somewhere along the way. Haven't got it now. Can't remember where I put it or when I last saw it.
I'm definitely not still in the style I was wearing when I first fell in love - I remember from that time a red, green and white mini kilt (very mini ), with a bright red seersucker shirt and bottle green knitted waistcoat and - wait for it - bottle green knee high socks with white pearl buttons down the outside, and black 'tap shoes' (that is, in the style of) with inch wide red ribbon ties. If I rocked up anywhere these days dressed like that I'd probably be sectioned.