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Feel liberated, but.....

(31 Posts)
grannyactivist Wed 22-Mar-17 10:16:19

It's probably a case of living with it long enough to get used to it. I went accidentally blonde about fifteen years ago when a brownish hair dye bleached blonde in the sun; the change was so gradual I didn't really register it until I went to the hairdresser and she asked me if I wanted to stay blonde. Now I can't imagine myself with brown hair.

Jayanna9040 Tue 21-Mar-17 22:34:22

Book a makeup session with a professional if you haven't changed your make up. What fitted with your dark hair won't work now. And yes make sure your hair shines. That's probably all the lift it needs.

Nanabilly Tue 21-Mar-17 21:45:39

There are some products available to lift grey hair and make them a lovely bright shiny colour . Shampoo as regular and another product that you use weekly ...called silver something or other . I know a couple of folks who have used them and it's worked a great . Sorry I'm a bit vague on names of product but they are available in hair care aisle in Tesco and no doubt the other major stores.

Marydoll Tue 21-Mar-17 20:23:39

At the weekend I complimented an acquaintance, I hadn't seen for a while, on the lovely colour of her hair. Her reply: " My hair is really grey, I just use a coloured, wash out, mousse on it". she looked great.

rosesarered Tue 21-Mar-17 20:19:03

Have some dark blonde/honey blonde highlights put through it ( it's wot I do) I only have to do it every 6 months.The new growth hardly shows if your hair is grey, and it looks a bit younger. smile On the other hand Phoenix you could live with your newly grey hair for a few months longer, you may get used to it.

phoenix Tue 21-Mar-17 20:12:37

Evening all, hope everyone is well, and if not, sending good wishes.

Well, it has been quite a few months since my poor hairdresser and I had a marathon 4 hour session converting my dyed dark red hair to a sort of grey.

The process went like this:
1)Apply bleach, leave on, rinse. Result? Sort of pink/apricot.
2) Dry hair to be ready for next stage!
3) Apply more bleach, leave on, rinse.
4) Dry hair, ready for next stage.
5) Apply sort of ash blonde colour.
6) Wait, rinse.
7) Result! Cut and dry.

Well, of course my hair was left in really awful condition, can't blame my hairdresser, but over time it's now ok.

So, apart from the odd dalliance with temporary hair colours, namely Silver (pretty good) and Steel (not so keen) I am now completely natural!

Most of my hair is silver/white, some of the back bits seem to be more iron grey.

It is brilliant not to have to worry about roots anymore, especially as my hair is very fast growing, and of course there is a financial saving too.

However, when I catch sight of myself unexpectedly, I don't feel I look like "me"!

Yes, there are more important things in life, (and I am currently dealing with some) but sometimes the way we feel about ourselves can matter!

I don't want to go back to high maintenance, I.e. having to deal with roots and regrowth, but would like to do something to give a bit of a lift.

Any ideas?