I may well have fallen for this silliness when I was younger, after all I used to devour all the advice given on this subject. Not now, though as I'm older and wiser (!)
This how I learned to apply lipstick, 1. Put on lips, blot on tissue, 2. Apply once more, blot again. 3. Apply Lipcote, ignore tingling - it should be temporary.
When you have a cup of tea though, you always seem to leave a bit of lipstick on the rim of the cup, which looks repulsive. I only wear it for special occasions.