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Wired or non-wired that is the question?

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aquafish Sun 25-Feb-18 17:16:53

I had a turning point when out shopping for a new bra yesterday. A very nice lady in M&S seemed to be able to detect my dilemma and swooped in to help me! Not being a very well endowed lady I have always sought bras with a bit of oomph, and always wired (never sure why!) Yet recently I have had real problems with the wires riding up all the time, uncomfortable and unsightly to say the least. I tried on a beautifully soft unwired one and WOW what a difference! My life was immediately transformed - I unashamedly chose comfort over sexy styling, so comfortable I bought two - well at least ones black and looks a bit more alluring! Any thoughts ladies?

Sheilasue Mon 26-Feb-18 11:50:20

Only wear non wired bras. So comfortable and I get my underwear from M&S have tried other shops but not as good.

harrigran Mon 26-Feb-18 12:03:57

I can only wear one type of bra and it is a Triumph wired one.

Legs55 Mon 26-Feb-18 13:13:28

Wirelessgrin all the time now, used to wear wired bras but after I had a benign breast lump removed I was seeing the District Nurse for dressings & she recommended that "larger ladies" should wear unwired bras.

I have lots, plain t-shirt bras & some very pretty ones from M&S.

Overthehills Mon 26-Feb-18 13:15:27

Day6 - “chesticles”! grin
And MOnica having a “quick fumble”! grin
This thread has really cheered me up.

Kisathecat Mon 26-Feb-18 13:29:17

I always wear cotton bralets now and think that your posture improves because you become responsible for it!

Sar53 Mon 26-Feb-18 13:30:57

Always wired but not padded. Had myself measured in Debenhams and buy nearly all my bras there. Freya is my favourite make.

Greciangirl Mon 26-Feb-18 14:26:06

I try to avoid wearing bras whenever I can.
When I am at home and not expecting visitors, I wear vests.

I find you can get away with that more during winter when wearing thick baggy jumpers. But in summer, I do have to wear one when out.
Always non wired. Can't stand anything tight around my chest.

Nanna58 Mon 26-Feb-18 14:28:16

Wired, no choice as aGG cup! Saw newswimwear at Tesco yesterday, bikinis wired , swimsuits not- ? crazy!

starlily106 Mon 26-Feb-18 15:10:40

kittylester.
Snap!

Bamm Mon 26-Feb-18 15:11:38

I have recently found wired bras uncomfortable, even after a shop fitting. I have changed to non wired and although rather ' industrial ' looking, are so comfortable and supporting. I now wear Delicate Doreen by Triumph, but have found it is now discontinued in size 34. ( I wear 34g). Now purchased four on eBay.

Nanny41 Mon 26-Feb-18 15:31:02

Wired, plastic? slightly padded, quite discrete really, bought some lovely T shirt bras at Matalan of all places, they are SO good, and inexpensive.Try them out ladies!

humptydumpty Mon 26-Feb-18 15:44:36

Worn non-wired for decades, wires always seemed to be sticking out of bra previously after washing sad - and more comfortable, especially after boobs shrank post-breastfeeding smile

lesley4357 Mon 26-Feb-18 15:56:25

Wired because of ff cup size. If your bra is the correct size and fitted properly the wires shouldn't cause problems

GabriellaG Mon 26-Feb-18 16:24:51

M&S allegedly use a particular underwire that is guaranteed not to 'poke through' the bra seam.
It was mentioned in a 2015? article in the Daily Fail.
I rang M&S who confirmed that it had been using those underwires since 2013.

GabriellaG Mon 26-Feb-18 16:34:54

Nanny41
Shhh...discrete = separate.
It's discreet. ?

BBbevan Mon 26-Feb-18 16:39:13

Wired and always have been . At least sinceI began buying my own bras

lovebooks Mon 26-Feb-18 17:36:06

Not about bras, but "Fillerina" - an expensive product claiming to be a DIY alternative to fillers. Could the admins put this in the right place, please? And if you've tried this, I'd be really interested in your comments.

Jaxie Mon 26-Feb-18 17:52:20

Always non-wired, but I'm 38A. Mostly the cups are far too big and I look like the cow with the crumpled horn on one side ( it's a nursery rhyme). I divest myself of my bra at every opportunity, but it can be embarrassing if I answer the door and haven't put something loose on to disguise my droopers.

Eilyann70 Mon 26-Feb-18 17:54:43

Always wired from M&S - never a problem!

Celeste22 Mon 26-Feb-18 18:07:58

I like wired though I go braless in the on holiday & summer. My biggest embarrassment was when one of my M&S "chicken fillets"accidentally fell out while I was conducting the school choir. A pupil simply picked it up , handed it to me saying"you dropped this,Miss'

jordana Mon 26-Feb-18 18:10:14

I started a thread about bras a year or so ago and the posts are much the same - we ladies are still having problems with I'll fitting bras even after being measured. I have tried wired and non wired, cheap and expensive and am still struggling to find a nice bra which gives a nice shape AND comfortable! Each to their own - if you find one make that suits, just stick to it

patriciageegee Mon 26-Feb-18 19:01:14

Love the 'chesticles' day six ?

Saggi Mon 26-Feb-18 20:12:20

I have loathed bras since my mother first forced me to wear one at 16.... (which by the way I didn’t need). To be quite honest I still don’t need one! Never have. None of us do. Invented by the fashionistas to shove our tits up round our necks. I’m 68 and haven’t worn one since reading ‘the Beauty Myth’ by Naomi Woolf. Burn it or throw it away. Not wearing bras hasn’t stopped me from being married 45 years and getting two kids and two grandkids. Freedom women...freedom!

MagicWand Mon 26-Feb-18 20:13:54

I can't be the only person who cannot now wear a bra because of having a lumpectomy due to breast cancer! I tried but due to the 2 totally different cup sizes needed found if one boob fitted, the other was either exploding out of the cup or flopping around with masses of room to spare! I thought about just padding out that side but found that bra seams etc. just rubbed on the scar tissue.

Result is I now have a rapidly aging multi coloured selection of 'secret support' cotton camisoles but they are very difficult to track down. I got my first ones 10yrs ago from Lands End but they don't sell them any more, Boden did them for a season several years ago and they are still very comfy (I look after them very well!). The latest have come from good old M&S but WHY don't more manufacturers make them? We all know that breast cancer will affect 1 woman in 9, so what do all the other survivors out there wear?

Tooyoungytobeagrandma Mon 26-Feb-18 22:25:40

Wired tee shirt bras for me so smooth lines in clothes and no nips showing grin