My post has little to do with paleness or tanning, more about confidence. Two years ago we went on our first beach holiday in ages. I wanted to cover up every inch of my then heavily overweight body. Once there I saw women of every shape, but I didn't focus on their bodies - what I noticed most were the ladies enjoying themselves. One in particular had a body shape similar to mine and she was there in a bright bikini, confidently walking up and down the beach. On our latest holiday I decided to discard my hangups about myself - after all I will never see any of these people again. I came home feeling better and started dieting! Getting back to your question, I really think we are all happier if we accept our own bodies and skin, and even celebrate them. Don't fake it, be sun safe and be yourself. Prepare your skin and you will will look healthy and glowing whatever shade it is.