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HELP needed with my wedding shoes please

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mumski Tue 24-Jul-18 07:52:26

I'm getting married in 6 weeks and on to my third pair of wedding shoes - all sent back. My problem is I can't do heels any more so I've been looking for sandle wedges with a heel no more than 3 cms. Also so my feet are quite swollen so will need a wide fit. I've tried all the usual suspects M and S, Debenhams, John Lewis and on line from America. All I want is white or Ivory with a bit of bling. I have bough some from Shuropody with the idea of sticking on some diamante but have decided they really are too old fogey - a step too far!!! Ha!. HELP!!!

GabriellaG Tue 24-Jul-18 10:24:55

GrannyKnot

...and white.
Yes, they do look 'modern' smart and suitable for a spring/summer wedding. smile

4allweknow Tue 24-Jul-18 10:30:30

I too would suggest Hotter.

toscalily Tue 24-Jul-18 10:44:45

I'm having the same problem finding a comfortable shoe/sandal to wear with a dress for a wedding, have tried on lots and nothing quite works, colours is wrong or they hurt. Have an old pair, nice dressy looking with a small heel which are comfortable but too worn to wear. I'm off out later today to try again. ExaltedWombat I care, think quite a few of us do too.

Outtawork Tue 24-Jul-18 11:20:55

have you tried ambrose wilson, they do different widths

PamelaJ1 Tue 24-Jul-18 11:31:06

Just been on eBay. There’s a ‘pair’ L=4.5, R=5!
Someone must need them??
They are Gabor, very nice and we all have odd feet don’t we?

Telly Tue 24-Jul-18 11:38:36

I have bought some stylish (but no so comfortable shoes) for the photos and have a super comfortable pair in my larger bag that I am leaving to hand. My clutch bag is only for show too. I know, I know, I have caught the belt and braces habit from DH.........

SiameseRoyalist44 Tue 24-Jul-18 11:42:20

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Allegretto Tue 24-Jul-18 11:59:23

I’ve recently bought some flat sparkly sandals from Clark’s. They might not have what you are looking for, Mumski, but mine are really comfortable and might work for some Grans who are seeking flat/low-heeled sandals with a wee bit of bling.

SiameseRoyalist44 Tue 24-Jul-18 12:14:28

Hi Mumski,
Firstly HUGE congratulations upon your forthcoming nuptials, hope everything goes well. I’ve found some inexpensive white comfortable looking Lilley (low heeled) wedges with small diamante detailing in sizes 5 through to 9 with one reviewer saying they are large in size. Just the job for standing most of the day. To add a bit more blingy embellishment to the shoes, I also know that Amazon and eBay do crystal rhinestone shoe clips for weddings, parties etc. I attach a picture of the shoes with two ideas for clips though there are lots to choose from. Meantime best wishes for a long and happy marriage.

willa45 Tue 24-Jul-18 12:23:30

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JaneJANE60 Tue 24-Jul-18 13:03:10

Hi. Try Evans or one of the shops for larger ladies, their shoes are wide fit.

Have a lovely day

lovebeigecardigans1955 Tue 24-Jul-18 13:20:41

Have you tried Damart? Their shoes are wide fitting.

Niobe Tue 24-Jul-18 13:25:00

I have problems getting shoes too, wide feet with bunions and a high arch, and I find Evans very good too.

BonnieBlooming Tue 24-Jul-18 13:31:01

I struggled to find shoes for my daughter's wedding. I never wear heels and live in trainers but wanted something a wee bit glam. I spent a whole day in the city looking and ordered and returned several pairs on line. I eventually got a really lovely pair by Gabor from Amazon. Small heel bit of sparkle and I was able to wear them all day!

travelsafar Tue 24-Jul-18 13:34:11

What about buying a plain pair and adding your own bling.There are so many crafty items out there nowadays i am sure you would find something suitable.

Jalima1108 Tue 24-Jul-18 13:57:03

DH asked me why the shoes I buy always seem comfortable in the shop, but are unwearable when I get them home. hmm
I don't know the answer.

However, I do have to choose shoes for comfort these days. Could you put another pair somewhere handy in case the very smart ones hurt your feet mumski?

Scholl do some gel pads to put under the balls of your feet which could help too.

Good luck and congratulations

Overthehills Tue 24-Jul-18 14:11:13

Congratulations Mumski!
I too have problems getting comfortable shoes and would go down the “smart for photos and comfy for the rest of the day” route. As others have said - people are far more realistic nowadays! ?

Daftnan Tue 24-Jul-18 14:15:35

Try DB shoes, they have a wide range of widths and styles. Good luck.

Nannarose Tue 24-Jul-18 14:20:50

Are you anywhere near 'old shoe factory' country?
Padders in Kettering and Rieker in Market Harborough have lovely comfy shoes in wide fittings - and Padders will fit special insoles, by taking the original insole out, so you don't lose space in the shoe.
Mail order, try these:
www.marshallshoes.co.uk/waldlaufer-m17. They do different width fittings.

hulahoop Tue 24-Jul-18 15:06:30

Congratulations and best wishes for the future mumski hope you find some comfy shoes and enjoy your day ???‍❤️‍?‍?

SeaWatcher Tue 24-Jul-18 15:17:58

Try DB wide fitting shoes and sandals. Very comfortable !

JaneD3 Tue 24-Jul-18 15:40:02

Just bought so low wedge peep toe shoes from the local garden centre for daughter’s wedding. grin It has a branch of Pavers. They are pretty and wide enough!

JaneD3 Tue 24-Jul-18 16:21:00

They are ivory with a bow edged with gold

HildaW Tue 24-Jul-18 17:08:35

I've bought the Hotter ones as shown above. Normally am not a fan of theirs but the style fits with my 1950's inspired suit. They really encase your foot and make you feel very secure and somehow not as if wearing heels. Normally if I put heels on nowadays I feel very clumsy and somehow far less capable....tis weird.

EmilyHarburn Tue 24-Jul-18 17:56:52

What about trying wider fit shoes?
www.widerfitshoes.co.uk/pp+ladies+ladies