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wearing make-up

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Fennel Wed 21-Aug-19 14:27:14

I used to put on make-up, especially lipstick, eye shadow and mascara, before going to work in the morning. If we were going out at night I even had false eyelashes.
Then for the last 20 years or so everyone seems to have gone au naturel. But recently I've noticed more women, even my age, look as if they've started to make up again. Especially lipstick and foundation.
I don't think I could be bothered - what do you think?

Callistemon Sat 24-Aug-19 14:16:54

At the moment I have a red and very itchy mozzie bite just under one eyebrow.
Not a good look at all.

Esspee Sat 24-Aug-19 14:20:28

Most older women look even older with make up on. My advice to anyone is a bit of moisturiser and perhaps a lip gloss and mascara with a big smile.

Callistemon Sat 24-Aug-19 14:30:48

As i said earlier, I would look like an underbaked shortbread biscuit Esspee
I'll stick to subtle makeup.

TerriBull Sat 24-Aug-19 14:47:28

It's an interesting thread because I really cared about makeup once, certainly never went to work without, the whole face on which included face foundation. A friend and I recently went up to the V&A to see the Mary Quant Exhibition and worked out the only thing we could afford was her make up which they had exhibits of. I do recall being mid teens saving up for her stuff and wearing false eyelashes with very frosty lipstick. I remember reading an interview with some famous people and their makeup routines. Shakira Caine said something along the lines of "I don't wear foundation because it sits in the creases", " ooh you're so right I thought" and ditched it. Moisturiser is a must, apart from that, my focus has long since shifted from eyelashes to eyebrows and I faff around with those every day, there are far more products for the brow since they became an entity all on their own. I wear a highlighter on the brow bone, some neutral tone, in the form of a cream eyeshadow on the eyelid and occasionally a little mascara, but not always. I do like crayon type lipsticks so will always wear some lipstick. I think it's best to tone it down as you get older, God forbid when older women go the "full Barbara Cartland" it's not a good look imo!

Hetty58 Sat 24-Aug-19 14:57:26

Paddyann, it's awful how we are labelled. I was the clever one and my sister was beautiful. I was expected to do well at school and find a career as I wasn't going to be a 'good catch'. I believed all that claptrap too.

One career and two handsome and successful husbands later, I know it's so important to take care of childrens' self-image.

Make up, I used to wear loads (when I didn't really need it) to boost my self-confidence. Now, I rarely bother, (except blusher) unless attending a wedding or major event. I might look into having my eyebrows and lashes tinted, though.

Lazigirl Sat 24-Aug-19 17:47:51

Why is it the British disease moom? Why do we have to look fabulous forever? I think we should value people for who they are, not allow the beauty industry to dictate how we should look. Some of us like make up, some don't, we are all free to choose how we look without our confidence being constantly undermined by a multi million pound industry.

Hetty58 Sun 25-Aug-19 12:22:59

I'd much rather look at a natural face than one adorned with tattooed eyebrows, fake lashes, lips plumped with filler and lines Botoxed to total, expressionless, face-freeze. I find the results really scary!

MawB Sun 25-Aug-19 13:21:11

I'd much rather look at a natural face than one adorned with tattooed eyebrows, fake lashes, lips plumped with filler and lines Botoxed to total, expressionless, face-freeze. I find the results really scary

So would most people, but why do you have to exaggerate?
This thread was about wearing makeup - not the horrors you describe.

Alexa Sun 25-Aug-19 14:07:49

I like Panstik. It is thick but how thickly you apply it is your choice. If you apply it thinly you get coverage without oiliness, so it's useful for sensitive eye lids and eyes.

I get the least peachy colour of Panstik preferring light beige.

Fennel Sun 25-Aug-19 14:50:47

Panstick has been on the go for ages. My Mum was very good looking, especially in her younger years. She was born in 1914 and postwar there was an influx of american makeup ie Max Factor. Young women went mad for this new fashion.
She used to do beauty treatments at our house. She had some arrangement with the local Boots chemist to buy their things cheaply, and they prepared a special facepack for her. I used to know the contents but forget now - many times I got it from Boots for her.
re Panstick - I have a vivd memory of her going out to a special dance, wearing a lowcut evening gown, and she asked me to apply panstick to her revealed shoulders.
She looked stunning, but I could never be bothered.

Soozikinzi Mon 26-Aug-19 00:40:52

Charlotte tilsbury is the best but it’s very expensive!

janeainsworth Tue 27-Aug-19 09:03:07

This is why I wear makeup

Gonegirl Tue 27-Aug-19 09:18:11

Oh come on Jane! Now give us a picture with a nice smile on your face.

Gonegirl Tue 27-Aug-19 09:18:55

Although you look alright to me.

janeainsworth Tue 27-Aug-19 09:46:43

gringrin
Thanks gonegirl

Gonegirl Tue 27-Aug-19 09:50:45

[thumbsup]

janeainsworth Tue 27-Aug-19 11:51:04

A smiley one for you Gonegirl
On a day out at Scarborough a couple of months ago smile

Liz46 Tue 27-Aug-19 11:57:44

Your hair looks lovely Jane.

Gonegirl Tue 27-Aug-19 11:59:13

See?! That's much better. Lovely. smile

Gonegirl Tue 27-Aug-19 11:59:57

Yes. You've got lovely hair. Wish mine behaved like that.

Francis Tue 27-Aug-19 12:01:09

I enjoy putting a little makeup on. some days i have a day off from it but i really do enjoy wearing it.

janeainsworth Tue 27-Aug-19 12:42:01

Thank you Liz & Gonegirlsmile

DanniRae Tue 27-Aug-19 13:26:47

That's a lovely photo Jane! smile

Fennel Tue 27-Aug-19 14:18:09

You've got a lovely smile Jane smile!
I think I'll start to wear lipstick again. Not too bright though.

Lazigirl Tue 27-Aug-19 16:09:43

Janeainsworth it's not the makeup, it's your lovely smile that makes the difference.